"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Myspace Good or Bad Idea?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible_Belt

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love it; it's where the girls are.

Build a page around your interests, get a lot of friends based around that interest, then get a couple actual female friends and work toward getting comments from hot chicks.

I'd say base openers around something you're into or something she's into. Build a common ground, then keep escalating, getting to the phone to in-person asap.

There's plenty about the AWs of myspace not to like, but I think it's not productive to complain. Myspace is just where the girls are, for better and for worse. These are the times in which we live.
 

Randallpink83

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My myspace is so sick, it kicks the girls right in the CaChoncas and they fall instantly in love!

My page is so sick that openings have become obsolete... Its so sick Girls became Obsolete! :rockon:
 

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Myspace only works if you are good looking. I've tried meeting chicks but they won't even add me:rolleyes:
 

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myspace is gay. even if your hot, have tons of friends, and girls leaving comments all the time, it barely works. Half the girls wont even read your message, the other 45% wont respond, and 5% might talk to you, until you ask for their number. then they dont respond. Myspace is basically a flattering tool for women, regardless of how sucessful you are in real life, anyone using myspace looks like an AFC to them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Randallpink83

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its not so bad... I suppose a lot of it has to do with your pics. Just get some good ones.. I'm not that great looking but I work the "myspace angles" just like all the girls on there lol.

Myspace is good for making connections within your social circles and broadening it out...

Like I have posted before I have pulled lays from myspace from cold approaching (or cold messaging rather). And I can generate attraction and get numbers from it all the time if I want. But it serves many purposes of getting your image together.

Most girls have myspace, I go where girls congregate... Clubs, Bars, Myspace, Malls, Concerts... doesn't matter just go where the girls are at, even in cyber space.
 

Luveno

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It really only works if your appearance is congruent with what a girl's social peer group deems attractive.

If you look emo, you'll get emo girls.

If you look like a rapper, you'll get ghetto girls.

If you look like George Clooney, you'll get upper-class white girls.

It's really not much different from real world pick-ups.
 

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Myspace was a good idea but someone already thought of it.
 

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MySpace is a tool, just like facebook, just like spitting game in the club. They all serve the same function.

Basing your entire social enterprise on MySpace is stupid. But all these tards complaining about how it doesn't work, or that there is a set formula for your results must live in remote parts of the country or technologically inept.

Hands down, myspace is one of the easiest ways to connect with multiple people of value and build rapport. Women are much more open to hand out their emails than their numbers.

If you get 5 numbers in a night, you could easily get 20 email addresses. That would set you up dates wise, for at least 6 months.

MySpace is a supplement, not the main diet.
 
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