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[dmoney]

hey just had quick question cuz i'm kind of stuck. theres this girl at skool a grade lower than me that i've been flirting with. i had no interest in her at the beginning but she had interest in me. i just started getting interested this week (cuz i want to date someone). it seems that now that i'm interested she isnt as interested anymore. but that could also be cuz of her friend that seems to ****block and doesnt like me (or maybe she does and is jealous who knows). so i got her number (got it like two weeks ago but never called her) and called her a few days ago when i was off from work to hang out, called her twice but she didnt answer it just kept saying the person your calling is not available right now. havent called her since then (that was wednesday). i sent her a message on myspace that wednesday to ask what she was doing on thursday. she read the mail but never replied back. dunno whats going on or what to do and was wondering if i could get someones help.

i'm working today but could hang out later tonight when i get off work.

need a reply from some ASAP

thanks in advance

 

[schttrj]

man, im not a top dating guru but u can rely on my advice. well, to start off, u havent given us enuff info bout what happened in between and how u two have been interacting. well, first of all, if u were just casual friends and had casual chats once in a while, tehn go and make her friend your friend first of all. dont flirt with her, noooo! but just kinda give a hint that u might be interested in her friend but not letting her be sure of that (THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT!) ur aim is not to escalate with her friend, rather just be a friend and create a casual connection with her. well, dont overdo it and even just a couple of times u come by them or maybe, u make eye contact and smile at her friend first and then with her. u may need some help with studies and ask her friend for that, but MAKE SURE HER FRIEND DOESNT EVER THINK U R HITTING ON HER! but ya, here remember one thing, never ignore her completely, rather have a great convo wiht both of them at times, just giving a bit more attention to her friend rather than her, now when u feel the iron is getting hot, u be ready to strike it.

second assumption, u never talked with these two girls. what would u do now? lemme feel the situation. grow ur social circle first of all, show her that ur life is more interesting than hers and for a while, keep her starved of ur attention, and u need the fuse the landmine at the same time lest it farther some damage to the "push" u give her. so just start getting her friend on ur side now. here u need to portray a different picture fully. U R THE STAR and u r giving her friend a bit more attention than her, but one thing, in any fun, keep it fun for her, exciting! if she enjoys u, she is urs! nobody can stop her from coming to u.

PS u have already come of as needy, now try to use some teasing and ****y funny comment to make a comeback, and if u can, best way get as many girls attracted to u as possible but never really showing that u r fully disinterested in her.

 

[dmoney]

ok i understand... heres the problem though i wont see them till monday when skool starts again so should not contact her till then?

 

[schttrj]

well, do give her a call sometime, keep it short and make sure to let her know subtly u had a very interesting things to do. the thing is taht here u are just defusing any negativity that is comin from her friend with ur positive attitude and the alpha man lifestyle. act nonchalnt if she brings up any negative issues that may spoil ur game and just steer it to another cool topic. most important thing here, u r showing ur status at the same time, u need to build the connection or the chemistry so she feels u two have somewhat the same frequency. u get me? good.

 

[collalife]

from what i read you made yourself available on myspace too early. the ****blocking friend, become friendly with her. the girl(target) is wondering, simply flirt with and bust her balls ocassionally when you see her. shes old news now move on. she will come back.