"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Myspace / facebook

Suaveman

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I need everyone's opinion on this. A buddy of mine swears that he can pick up lots of hot nice girls off of myspace. Now I figured since facebook was simluar to myspace then they could be grouped together. My question for all of you is myspace/facebook an effective way to meeting and getting girls? I was curious if I should add it to my arsenal or if it would be a waste of time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bourne

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I love these 2.

I don't use them to pick up chicks or get laid. I use it to keep in touch with friends and girls that I meet who don't live in the same state. Its great.
 
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