"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Myspace ex g/f question

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wjh said:
... I don't believe there are any good reasons to be active on myspace unless you're there strictly to bang as many girls as possible.
And this is a bad thing?

It’s like fishing in a barrel of starving fish.

Applying the principles learned here allows you to dominate your moronic, pandering, AFC, complement-giving competition.

If you want to get some good laughs just look at the idiotic comments the AFC’s make on any hot chick’s page.

STR8UP, hopefully you are sticking with not contacting. As you know, too many ways to fall back into raising your interest in your X. I’m sure you never check out her profile every now and then…..It’s too easy…
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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STR8UP, hopefully you are sticking with not contacting. As you know, too many ways to fall back into raising your interest in your X. I’m sure you never check out her profile every now and then…..It’s too easy…
I will admit that I check out her page from time to time. But the time in between in measured in MONTHS, not weeks or days or any crap like that.

Honestly though.....I have completely moved on. Don't get me wrong, I would love nothing more than to fukk the living sh!t out of her again, the sex was AMAZING. But my rational self keeps me from ever going there again.

Man, I was just thinking about this. All of these lying, cheating ho's are getting married to SOMEONE. Some poor guy is inheriting all of these problems whether he knows it or not. You think a zebra is gonna change its stripes from one relationship to the next? Hell no! Out of the last 4 women that I have had sex/relationships with, the most recent one was fresh out of rehab for a coke addiction and relapsing. The one before that was a 33 yr old with jealousy issues and a slight drinking problem who was itching to settle down (now she's married). The one before her is the 21 yr old who is engaged to be married next year, and still talking about sex all the time in our convos and staying the weekend at my place. The one prior to that turned to to be a liar and a cheater after a good 2 yr relationship (now I hear she's engaged!).

I feel sorry for these guys, but then again i know the nature of women, and this is not atypical behavior, so I guess that's what you get if you choose to marry. Oh well......
 

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MacAvoy said:
Dollars to doughnuts says he eventually breaks down and contacts her
Much resolve is much stronger than that.
 
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