"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wt_firefighter

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I've been chatting with this girl hb9 but we have a lot in common so I would definitly give her an overall 10. I sent the first message to her and she responded and we've been messaging for about week and a half. a total of about five messages. Our messages to each other are sarcastic towards each other, but in a very playful way. I havn't commented on her looks yet. After about the second message, she hadn't responded for like four days or so. So I messaged her and gave her heck for not messaging me. She messages me about feeling like I was rejected. So she has been teasing me about that, giving me the definition of rejected and what not. I have hinted a couple of times about having an interest, saying we have a lot in common, I said I was going to ask her to a movie but said she sucked at everything. I said this as a joke. She took it well. Whenever I send these messages showing some interest, her responses never saying anything about being interested in me. But if she wasn't interested I feel that she wouldn't be responding to me. Anyway I want to get her number but don't really know a good way, other then just straight up asking her. Which maybe I should do.
Any comments would be great

Peace out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you know she is a HB9? Have you seen her in person?
 
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