I'm not very good at meeting women in public. Therefore, I use myspace. So far this year, I have had sex with 3 women there. However, I feel that I should be having much better success. Many of the girls there do not reply to my messages and I would like to know if you guys have any tips on how to get a higher # of responses. What types of things do you guys put on your profiles? examples of messages that you guys sent? thanks
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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- Thread starter chaps300
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
It's a numbers game. Put out as many emails as you can and wait for the responses. I've never did it before, but I'm sure the principle is the same whether you're talking about in person or online.chaps300 said:
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This appears to be a huge problem. Your situation is a supporting example of how technology is destroying humans as a social species. You say you've had sex with three women so far via myspace, but I still think it's healthier to attempt to meet women in the real world, face to face. Myspace makes it too easy; it will become your crutch. :nono:chaps300 said:
Instead of worrying about how to pimp your myspace page, why don't you try to improve yourself, meet women in the real world, and let your myspace reflect this new you? Maybe then women will flock to your page...