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Ne Body goin to be down there for springs break?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Goin' down there? Pssh. I live like 30 minutes away. 'course I'll be down there. 
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ha kick ass man wheres the big parties gonna b?
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Eh...it's Myrtle Beach...so I'm guessing...EVERYWHERE!?!? hahah. I know of some on the other side of MB, Garden City, what week is your spring break?
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15 to the 23.... we got a place down at ocean lakes forthe whole week. but consideren the ppl i'm goin w prolly end up bein the 15 to the 15 maybe 16th if were lucky
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Ah, the week after mine. Anyway, I hate people like that. I guess you can just go out and find the party, there'll probably a good bit of them.
I guess you can just go out and find the party, there'll probably a good bit of them.