"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Myers Briggs personality types

Gro0ver

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I work for a large international company and they are great believers in the Myers Briggs personality tests to help you understand how you work best and how you can work better with your team.

I recently broke up with my gf of 2 months, and I was a bit confused as to how and why I felt the need to do it so quickly/early and why certain patterns of a past relationship reoccured. I never thought of applying the Myers Briggs stuff outside of the workplace but I actually have found it really useful for understanding myself, particularly as I'm a highly analytical type of personality and feel compelled to understand patterns and unlying themes in everything.

Take the test: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp

When you answer the questions do it quickly and with your first thought on it, don't overthink it just use your natural response for best results.

While I wouldn't say that you shouldn't take it as gospel, it certainly has helped me understand my actions and desires a lot better. You can get more information about your personality type in relationships elsewhere on the net.

Hope it helps you as much it has me (although it's opened up another world of stuff to test + analyse). I'm an INTP btw.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nice bro! I'm an INTP too... well borderline INTP/ENTP.
Introvert/Extrovert for me is 50-50
iNtuitive, Thinking and Perceiving on the other hand are maxed out.

I like Myers-Briggs, mainly because its based on Jungian principles, and Carl Jung was the most boss thinker/philosopher of the 20th century imo (not to mention a bonafide alpha DAWG).
 

Who Dares Win

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Your Type is
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From the description Im reading it seems like Im some kind of bad guy from 007 movies.

Well hope I'll be one of those who get the hot girls and the huge money before having his island/submarine/fortress drestroyed.

However I think this test reads people well enough.
 

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INFJ here...

I felt it was pretty accurate...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who Dares Win said:
From the description Im reading it seems like Im some kind of bad guy from 007 movies.

Well hope I'll be one of those who get the hot girls and the huge money before having his island/submarine/fortress drestroyed.

However I think this test reads people well enough.

I'm in that boat with you bro! LOL

People always tell me I somehow know how to manipulate them into getting what I want; people that know me well that is.... explains a lot about my interactions with women! hahaha







PIMP
 

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ESFP

Says I'm a performer. I guess that's about right, with dance and all.
 

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ISFJ, bigtime on the I.

I need to not be so in my head and in my shell :(
 

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ENFP

I've done this test a couple of times. I am a very warm, enthusiastic and loving extrovert. I think life is too funny and too short; people need to go out and spread their energy around.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think we should have a poll on the personality types we have. By comparing the percentages we get to the percentages that occur in the average population, we could probably infer something about ourselves.
 

Who Dares Win

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HariPoter13 said:
I think we should have a poll on the personality types we have. By comparing the percentages we get to the percentages that occur in the average population, we could probably infer something about ourselves.
Great idea, totally support it, we could get if theres any common factor about guys here.
 

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Wow 89 introvert, guess I like my alone time. Also apparently I'm very intuitive seeing as I like to read and analyze everything. Nice test.

-Gripz-
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ISTJ, cant help but think the test is still a bag of cr@p!

the results didnt tell me anything I didnt know and anyone who knows me could tell me the same
 

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I test as ENTP, although I've been mainly INTP in the past. I think breaking out of my shell, going to more parties and social gatherings, and realizing how much I hate being alone made me realize I was more shy than extroverted. I am quiet at times, but enjoy the company of other people and socializing.

There was a time where I even was INFP for a while. You can't really pigeonhole people into categories like this. Personality traits lie on a spectrum, not in either-or divisions.
 

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I'm an ISTP, confirmed that a long while back via multiple tests and reviewing the different personality profiles as there is some overlap with INTP and INTJ. I got my girlfriend to take the test when we started dating and she's an ISFJ, which didn't surprise me as she's the caring and giving type who loves to please her man. :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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