"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My X's Best Friend!

Should I Go For It?

  • Yes, Go For It!

    Votes: 6 75.0%

  • No, Just Leave It As It Is??

    Votes: 2 25.0%
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    8
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Before I got with my X, I met her best friend and we became good friends! She really didn't talk to my X that much but when I wanted her to hook me up with my X, they started talking again. Then the bestfriend got with this one dude G, and we became good friends. Well after a year of a bad realtionship me and the bestfriend started to talk more about how the opposit sposses were treating us. We became closer and she even came to cry on my shoulder real late at nights about all the BS. It got the point were we would talk, hang out, and go do shuff that we that are sposses wouldn't want us to do, secreatly!!! She broke up with her man and I didn't like nomore guess he tried to fight my cousin from behind. And Me and MY X split on real bad terms but what can I say. Me and the bestfreind still talk every once and a while but she also still talks to my X obviously. I kinda feel for the bestfriend and I got a real good hunch that she has done the same over me. What Should I Do? Should I go for it??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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...Top right hand corner...New Here? We suggest checking out the DJ BIBLE (LINK) before posting.
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...Top right hand corner...New Here? We suggest checking out the DJ BIBLE (LINK) before posting.
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I wouldn't mess with that.. you could make a serious mistake here and lose a good friend. Juss keep talkin to her, leave it as is for now. If she really wants something, she'll find a way to let you know.
 
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