"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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my worst fear has come true..I need HELP PLZ READ!

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Okay, so I've been getting with girls since 7th grade. However this year I met my a good friend of whom talks to girls all the time and gets the 'dirt'. So yesterday online he IMs me saying he is coming over today and giving me a lesson on DJ (he jokes around about it cause he knows I use this site.) So anyways he come sover today in what I thoguht would be somehting about being agressive (hes told me this girl doesn't think i'm agresive enuff)

Anyways, he gets to my house and we end up talking about how to feel up girls and how to kiss them. He told me this girl that I got with told him that I wasn' t such a great kisser. Now I really really can't like with myself knowing that girls think I'm a bad kisser and I can't feel them up. So I'm asking you guys to help me give me some tips on kissing and feeling chicks up, thanks!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The best thing you can do is learn how to do this from a woman. Women will kiss you and touch you the way they want to be kissed and touched.

Pay attention to how she uses her lips and tongue. Pay attention to where and how she touches you. Learn from that and use it on them.
 

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Originally posted by toddC
Now I really really can't like with myself knowing that girls think I'm a bad kisser and I can't feel them up.
Surely it's not THAT bad. Only one girl thinks you a bad kisser.

Initiate!
Your a man dammit. Lead.
Generally you will need to touch her ass, tits and crotch before she will touch yours.

Start Slow!
Build the excitement up. She will give you signals when she is ready for YOU to move things along. This will also keep you out of the courts :D

Gentle!
Until you know that she likes it rough ;)

Don't Rush!
Your supposed to be enjoying yourself. Aren't you?

Those are my tips. If you want instructions do a web search.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Oh brother. Question answered. thread closed.
 
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