my worst fear has come true..I need HELP PLZ READ!

[toddC]

Okay, so I've been getting with girls since 7th grade. However this year I met my a good friend of whom talks to girls all the time and gets the 'dirt'. So yesterday online he IMs me saying he is coming over today and giving me a lesson on DJ (he jokes around about it cause he knows I use this site.) So anyways he come sover today in what I thoguht would be somehting about being agressive (hes told me this girl doesn't think i'm agresive enuff)

Anyways, he gets to my house and we end up talking about how to feel up girls and how to kiss them. He told me this girl that I got with told him that I wasn' t such a great kisser. Now I really really can't like with myself knowing that girls think I'm a bad kisser and I can't feel them up. So I'm asking you guys to help me give me some tips on kissing and feeling chicks up, thanks!

 

[kev me723]

simple rules:

Don't jam your tongue down their throat from the start

Keep your hands moving a decent amount

Above all, use david deangelo's phrase: 2 steps foreward, 1 step back. Kiss lightly, stop for a little bit. Kiss a bit more heavily, stop again. Keep them anticipating, and they'll never forget it.

 

[TheManlyMan]

How would you like it if you were just sitting next to some girl chattin it up and out've no where she rips your pants off and starts jerking you like you're about to blow; when your **** is cold as last years holidary ham sittin in the freezer in your garage?

warm her up by feeling around the immediate area, don't touch nipples/**** until after shes squirms around.

 

[toddC]

nono, i know not to stick my toungue down their throat and according to my friend your supposed to put your hands on the top part of the a$$ rather than the bottom and how should you move your tounge around.

Also sicne I've had about an hour since hes left I've thought about it and my lips are kinda big and it always ends up with slobber (not too much but a lil) how can I put an end to that.

 

[toddC]

so how do you go about feeling her up w/o touching a girls nipple..(i hope you guys don't feel like im a complete noob at this its just I've never been told I've been doing thi s**** bad before and I want to make it work.) Should I hover over it?

 

[toddC]

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[Random Hero]

Originally posted by kev me723
simple rules:

Don't jam your tongue down their throat from the start

Keep your hands moving a decent amount

Above all, use david deangelo's phrase: 2 steps foreward, 1 step back. Kiss lightly, stop for a little bit. Kiss a bit more heavily, stop again. Keep them anticipating, and they'll never forget it.

Alright this is gold. David D has taught me alot about how to kiss a girl properly.

Go in for it with the kiss technique which is simply touching or stroking her air while keeping the EC going. Comment on how nice it looks or feels then go from looking at her eyes to lips then back at the eyes. Lick your lips then go for the kill.

As for actually kissing do not keep your head in one place.

What I find girls dig is when I take their face in my hands and kiss them. Another thing they like is making a fist with the hair on the back of their neck, not too hard though.

Start kissing the girl and after a bit pull back and just look at her face. Then go back into it.

If she starts using her tongue first don't let her use it. Pull back from her and then go for it again.

Give her a bit of tongue then take it away. Repeat.

You have to get her hot and heavy. I heard the expression one time that guys are like microwaves and girls are slow cookers. You really need to make the girl anticapate what will happen next and make her want it.

 

[toddC]

like grab her hair and make a fist with my hand?

anways i'm kinda more worried about the boobs...i rub the breast w/o touchign her nipple until she "deserves it"?

 

[Random Hero]

Originally posted by toddC
like grab her hair and make a fist with my hand?

anways i'm kinda more worried about the boobs...i rub the breast w/o touchign her nipple until she "deserves it"?

Make the fist or gentlly pull it. Not hard at all just like your guiding or controlling the kiss.

Rubbing the breast depends on where you want to go with it.

If your just making out then I usually don't touch the boobs. I notice alot of AFC go for the guns right away lol.

When making out I'll usually run my hands all over but I won't touch her cash and prizes. I will brush the sides of her breasts though.

If I'm dry humping I'll run my hands over them but I won't squeeze them. My hands are explorers at this stage.

If the clothes are off and sex is on the way then I will touch her breasts but no nipple. The reason for no nipple is because it is a very sensitive part of the womens body and can turn them on really nice.

But if it makes them purr why not do it?

Simply because I will touch and lick close to the nipple to make her want it. Some girls have litterally begged me to quit teasing them and start to stimulate them.

I apply the same rule for a girls downtown bonanza.

Hope some of this Helps bro.

 

[toddC]

yea i get it but like this girl told my friend she thinks i'm "too nervous to touch her" so when she put my hands on her t*ts i just started going at it (not knowing that rubbing nipples is a bad hting at first)...However this girl DOES want me on them when were making out so I should what like rub the boob but hoover over her nipple? or what? Thanks guys.