My World View Is Changing So Much

[Changing13]

I first need to preface this with I do not watch a lot of television. This is for many reasons preferably I like to read more and do outside activities, never the less I just caught this gem on Maury Povich.

Now I know you have all seen the "Who's your daddy?" segments on these "reality" shows. What I just watched was the following,

Subject 1:/Victim/Assumed Protagonist: 20 something white female.

Subject 2:/Victim/Assumed Antagonist: 20 something white male.

Issue: Subject 1 accuses Subject 2 of fathering said one year old male child.
Backstory: One night stand.

Long story short: Man comes out proclaiming his innocence and defends his lack of support to her and the child based on the fact that he is not the father nor should be the support of her child. She claims that he is in fact the father, and in turn should support the child. Verdict: He is not the father.

Now, this is the part of the interaction that I now found most interesting. The audience automatically assumed that the male was the "bad" guy from the get go. Without any predetermined knowledge, other than he had relations with this girl, he was presumed guilty. Never once was the woman booed or hissed at. What is amazing to me that the audience immediately took the side of a woman that has no idea who the father of the said child is.

WTF???? This woman has no idea who the father is? Was this guy just a Wed lay or a Tues lay? She just assumed that he was the father. How many guys is the broad banging? This should be the question.

It makes me sick to portray her as the victim. If anything the fricken child is the victim. The mother has so much unprotected sex that she has no clue who the childs father is? This child is fvcked. I am not going to defend the guy either. He is not the definition of a winner in any way. He acted like an ass after the result. In a way though I cannot blame him.

The woman then stormed off the stage without apology. That is what pissed me off the most. Where the hell did she get off accusing someone on national television and then not have the decency to apologize or even acknowledge the facts.

I do not feel bad for her. She spread her legs for someone and this is the result. It sucks for everyone involved. In the past I would of looked at her as a victim. (Blue Pill days) I do not now. I know who I have sex with and if it happens to be unprotected atleast I know. I would not forget this. I know my roles and the repurcussions of my actions.

Also, the man knew the timing of the said sexual action and knew the timing was whack. He was playing with a pretty solid stacked deck. The whole thing made me sad. The fact that this child may never know his father because his mother is a skank is frightening.

I guess my ultimate question is this. If you were about to have a child would you want a mandatory DNA test. I would. I need to know. I know this sounds cynical and not trustworthy, but, with the rampant divorce rates and swayed judicial system benefitting women, I would have to be sure.

Ughhh, I feel a little queasy and dirty. What is our world coming to where this trash is considered entertaining? I turned the tv back off, where it should of stayed.

 

[timmylivingalie]

I first need to preface this with I do not watch a lot of television. This is for many reasons preferably I like to read more and do outside activities, never the less I just caught this gem on Maury Povich.

Now I know you have all seen the "Who's your daddy?" segments on these "reality" shows. What I just watched was the following,

Subject 1:/Victim/Assumed Protagonist: 20 something white female.

Subject 2:/Victim/Assumed Antagonist: 20 something white male.

Issue: Subject 1 accuses Subject 2 of fathering said one year old male child.
Backstory: One night stand.

Long story short: Man comes out proclaiming his innocence and defends his lack of support to her and the child based on the fact that he is not the father nor should be the support of her child. She claims that he is in fact the father, and in turn should support the child. Verdict: He is not the father.

Now, this is the part of the interaction that I now found most interesting. The audience automatically assumed that the male was the "bad" guy from the get go. Without any predetermined knowledge, other than he had relations with this girl, he was presumed guilty. Never once was the woman booed or hissed at. What is amazing to me that the audience immediately took the side of a woman that has no idea who the father of the said child is.

WTF???? This woman has no idea who the father is? Was this guy just a Wed lay or a Tues lay? She just assumed that he was the father. How many guys is the broad banging? This should be the question.

It makes me sick to portray her as the victim. If anything the fricken child is the victim. The mother has so much unprotected sex that she has no clue who the childs father is? This child is fvcked. I am not going to defend the guy either. He is not the definition of a winner in any way. He acted like an ass after the result. In a way though I cannot blame him.

The woman then stormed off the stage without apology. That is what pissed me off the most. Where the hell did she get off accusing someone on national television and then not have the decency to apologize or even acknowledge the facts.

I do not feel bad for her. She spread her legs for someone and this is the result. It sucks for everyone involved. In the past I would of looked at her as a victim. (Blue Pill days) I do not now. I know who I have sex with and if it happens to be unprotected atleast I know. I would not forget this. I know my roles and the repurcussions of my actions.

Also, the man knew the timing of the said sexual action and knew the timing was whack. He was playing with a pretty solid stacked deck. The whole thing made me sad. The fact that this child may never know his father because his mother is a skank is frightening.

I guess my ultimate question is this. If you were about to have a child would you want a mandatory DNA test. I would. I need to know. I know this sounds cynical and not trustworthy, but, with the rampant divorce rates and swayed judicial system benefitting women, I would have to be sure.

Ughhh, I feel a little queasy and dirty. What is our world coming to where this trash is considered entertaining? I turned the tv back off, where it should of stayed.

Was that the guy on there today that charged the chick 60 dollars to babysit? It was awesome when Maury asked why did he charge her? He replied its not my kid or something like that.
To answer your question there is a double standard when the chicks make a mistake and pin the child on the wrong they get comforted but if the guy is the father they get yelled at and belittled. Chivarly BS!

 

[MM92]

Just on observation from that show. If it's a black couple it always seems to be the male that cheats and if it's a white couple it's always seems to be the female that cheats. Just something i've picked up on. also, you americans are fcuking crazy.

 

[Changing13]

Tim,

Yeah that was the one. I wasn't really listening that close, I was watching the non verbals of the people including the audience. There was some issue about money though, (isn't there always).

MM,

Tell me about it man. Our media culture here is awful and a sham. It is so degrating to people that even hold an ounce of dignity or respect for intellect. There is class to be found, but, it is near impossible to find in television. There is very few smart programming anymore. It's why I find other ways to entertain myself, and has made it a thousand times easier to unplug from the entire social "matrix,"