"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My workout

Evolve

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Iv started doing this three times a week.

All sets are heavy and I try to fail by atleast 10 reps. Everything is done using free weights apart from pull ups. I train hard with strict form.

4 Sets of squats
4 Sets of bench press
5 Sets of wide grip pull ups (to failer each time)
5 Sets of deadlift

Just checking can any one see any flaws in my simple workout. I want to pack on some size and get some serious core strength.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quagmire911

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You're on the right lines, but the volume and intensity are out of whack.

Use this:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125444

Option A is along the same kind of lines to what you are doing now, but has a better structure.

The reason for only one set on deadlifts is because anymore may impact on the central nervous system too much and lead to overtraining. I am not saying never do more than one set on deadlifts, but with the amount of squatting in this program, that is why there is only one set.

Good luck, and start a log!
 

Warboss Alex

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Quagmire911 said:
The reason for only one set on deadlifts is because anymore may impact on the central nervous system too much and lead to overtraining. I am not saying never do more than one set on deadlifts, but with the amount of squatting in this program, that is why there is only one set.
Well, dat's the rumour anyhow. :D :p
 

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I love to deadlift, so thats bad news :(.

Im not one to jump routines. So im going to give this one a go for 2 months. Go light for a few weeks. If I have not made any gains with my original routine i'll switch to option A like you suggested, it looks right up my street.
 
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