"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My Workout Plan

CORVETTE06

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Can u guys evaluate my workout plan?

Here are my goals: [Lose my spare tires, and gain muscle]

I currently weigh 165 pounds. I would like to be at least 170 by the end of summer. (All muscle). I think thats a reasonable goal...

Heres my current workout:

(ive been doing this since February)

Lift weights: (4-5 times a week) I break it up into 3 days (3 muscle groups). Instead of doing heavy weight, i do less weight with higher reps (14+) , until it burns and i cant do no more. I dont feel a burn when i do heavy weights (8-10 reps)

Cardio (2-3 times a week): Ethier an eliptical for 20 minutes, or I run a mile on the track

Results:
In FEBR. 07', i weighed 165 - - i still weigh the same now

However, I lost fat around my waist. In Feb, I used to buckle my buckle to the 2nd hole (and it was tight). Now i can buckle it to the third hole (comfortably)

I didn't gain that much muscle...I don't really notice any difference.

What am i doing wrong?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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donjuanjovi

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What exactly are these three muscle groups you have broken your routine into?

Why are you doing such high reps? It's absolutely worthless for packing on muscle.

Stop using the eliptical, people might start thinking you have a vagina.

What's your diet like?


You need to start reading.
 

EFFORT

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Your not gaining because your routine is trash and your diet is trash and you don't have any idea what your doing which is normal most of us go through a long bs phase before finding the correct information.

Do a search for the idiots guide and read that up and you'll be set
 
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