"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My Workout Plan

CORVETTE06

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Can u guys evaluate my workout plan?

Here are my goals: [Lose my spare tires, and gain muscle]

I currently weigh 165 pounds. I would like to be at least 170 by the end of summer. (All muscle). I think thats a reasonable goal...

Heres my current workout:

(ive been doing this since February)

Lift weights: (4-5 times a week) I break it up into 3 days (3 muscle groups). Instead of doing heavy weight, i do less weight with higher reps (14+) , until it burns and i cant do no more. I dont feel a burn when i do heavy weights (8-10 reps)

Cardio (2-3 times a week): Ethier an eliptical for 20 minutes, or I run a mile on the track

Results:
In FEBR. 07', i weighed 165 - - i still weigh the same now

However, I lost fat around my waist. In Feb, I used to buckle my buckle to the 2nd hole (and it was tight). Now i can buckle it to the third hole (comfortably)

I didn't gain that much muscle...I don't really notice any difference.

What am i doing wrong?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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donjuanjovi

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What exactly are these three muscle groups you have broken your routine into?

Why are you doing such high reps? It's absolutely worthless for packing on muscle.

Stop using the eliptical, people might start thinking you have a vagina.

What's your diet like?


You need to start reading.
 

EFFORT

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Your not gaining because your routine is trash and your diet is trash and you don't have any idea what your doing which is normal most of us go through a long bs phase before finding the correct information.

Do a search for the idiots guide and read that up and you'll be set
 
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