Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"fall in love with gay guys" as in they love having the gay guy tell them what shoes to wear. if a girl told me that she falls in love with gay guys, i'd tell her to go find one and get lost.Originally posted by Mitch_Mustain
Yeah, they think he's gay. But he told me that these girls told him that they fall in love for gay guys...whatever, I don't care but I really need to get focused and make a play.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you ever wake up in a good mood one day, and a bad one the next?Originally posted by Mitch_Mustain
So in my class I've had all these girl dig me but my wing, Aaron is screwing it up for both of us...what should I do?
Btw, does it seem like girls get cold one day and hot the next?