my wife cheated

[hi5]

i have been marry to my wife for a year and i just found out she cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend. At about 6 month into the marriage she cheated and its been a year now and she told me she cheated on me. for the past 2 weeks she has been talking to her ex-boyfriend and she says that iam never there for her and i never called her, we live in a different country because i always travel to work. So this is what she told me, one day we were arguing and she went to look for her ex-boyfriend at his house and she was drinking and fell asleep and she told me she had sex. iam really confuse now what should i do should i let her go or should i go to marriage counsilling.

My situation is we have baby together that is about 1 month old and now i need to do dna test.
I dont want a divorce because she will take half of my assest and i will have to pay child support beucase ususally women are the one getting custody of child. Another detail is that she has a court case for assulting me. should i take this chance and prove to the court that she is unfit to become a mother or should i not do that

 

[RickRoll]

Let her go man...

just let her go.

 

[Rescue Mission]

you live in a different country from your wife

she cheated on you with her ex

a strange man's c0ck was cvmming deep inside your wife

how much of a moronic pvssy do you have to be to even ask what to do?????? DUMP THE CVNT

 

[DonJuanit0]

I'm only 21 and haven't even thought of marriage but since it has to do with woman I'll share my opinion on this...

She doesn't have respect for you or for your job!
She did it once and I guess you're not going to change your job cause of this, so it might as well do it again!
Why did she tell you? Just to be honest? I don't really believe in that staff, I think she just wants you to act in a certain way! (divorce?)
Can you see yourself having children with this woman since this happened?

You ask, should I let her go? What does this mean?!? It means that you KNOW that she wants to go... You can't force someone to be with you, neither can the marriage counselor...

So, divorce her... She doesn't worth a thing...

 

[hi5]

she told me this because we are always arguing she says i dont call her , and i dont do this for her but her ex is willing to do it. For example leave everything and keep your job but her ex will .

 

[DonJuanit0]

i have been marry to my wife for a year and i just found out she cheated on me with her ex-boyfriend. At about 6 month into the marriage she cheated and its been a year now and she told me she cheated on me. for the past 2 weeks she has been talking to her ex-boyfriend and she says that iam never there for her and i never called her, we live in a different country because i always travel to work. So this is what she told me, one day we were arguing and she went to look for her ex-boyfriend at his house and she was drinking and fell asleep and she told me she had sex. iam really confuse now what should i do should i let her go or should i go to marriage counsilling.

My situation is we have baby together that is about 1 month old and now i need to do dna test.
I dont want a divorce because she will take half of my assest and i will have to pay child support beucase ususally women are the one getting custody of child. Another detail is that she has a court case for assulting me. should i take this chance and prove to the court that she is unfit to become a mother or should i not do that

Since you added the last paragraph afterwards, I'll answer to that thing too... Ask your lawyer, say that you can make her say again that she cheated on you, ask if it is legal to tape it and then take it to the court! The child (if it's yours) will go to you I guess (if you have a good layer).
I don't think she can have a thing from you if she is guilty of several things in the marriage, like assaulting you, cheated on you!

You should be asking your laywer by now, what to do with this b1tch!

 

[Rescue Mission]

I like how he edited his post instead of replying..........sounds like an idiotic troll

if he's not a troll, then this is a classic case of BEING A GODDAMN PVSSY who thinks it's right to stay in an AWFUL marriage "for the sake of the child"...........you goddamn moron, you shouldn't be having children in the first place with some young immature bytch!!

How bout you try being married for 5 years before even trying to create a new life.

how stupid are people these days??? It AMAZES me BEYOND BELIEF

Like, what kind of advice do you really want????? Dump the ****inv CVNT and pay your goddamn child support, move on, find a GOOD WOMAN, and have a child with her once you KNOW FOR A FACT that you will be with her for the rest of your life, and START YOUR FAMILY THERE..........what you have with the current cvnt you are with is just a huge MISTAKE that you need to turn your back to and completely remove yourself from, FOREVER!!

 

[DonJuanit0]

I like how he edited his post instead of replying..........sounds like an idiotic troll

if he's not a troll, then this is a classic case of BEING A GODDAMN PVSSY who thinks it's right to stay in an AWFUL marriage "for the sake of the child"...........you goddamn moron, you shouldn't be having children in the first place with some young immature bytch!!

How bout you try being married for 5 years before even trying to create a new life.

how stupid are people these days??? It AMAZES me BEYOND BELIEF

Like, what kind of advice do you really want????? Dump the ****inv CVNT and pay your goddamn child support, move on, find a GOOD WOMAN, and have a child with her once you KNOW FOR A FACT that you will be with her for the rest of your life, and START YOUR FAMILY THERE..........what you have with the current cvnt you are with is just a huge MISTAKE that you need to turn your back to and completely remove yourself from, FOREVER!!

Couldn't agree more...
Restart your sexual life while you have time and don't make the same mistakes! Rescue mission just told you your mistakes...

 

[hi5]

Yes iam stupied for picking up girls at the club

 

[Rescue Mission]

Yes iam stupied for picking up girls at the club

What you just said there had NOTHING to do with what I said and what your issues are.

You are definitely either a troll or total moron.........seek help, sosuave can't help you.

seriously, what does a CLUB have to do with anything???

 

[Tiguere]

Troll. Thread closed!

 

[ThunderMaverick]

What? Not it's not!

 

[Captain]

No matter what else happens, divorce her. I cannot stress that enough. You stay, she loses even more respect for you and will cheat again.

 

[Joe Stud]

divorce her, and if the kid is yours... pay the child support. it's like cutting off a cancerous arm or leg. you will be injured by the result, but it's better than the alternative (staying). then, start your new life as a DJ. use a condom, no more kids!

sometimes a result is damaging, but necessary. the real winners in this world are not the ones who have never had problems... but the ones who RECOVER from these problems. move on.

 

[Zarky]

Assuming for a second this isn't a troll, I think you should be seeking the advice of a therapist and an attorney, and not necessarily in that order. These boards are fine for minor life problems but you have a major one that needs better advice than random internet users can provide.

Leave here and seek professional help, ASAP.

 

[amoka]

I pray and hope this is a TROLL else you need a 180^o turnover.

 

[DonGorgon]

one mans ho is another mans house wife. if you cant handle that dont get married.

 

[GetOveIT]

Marriage is another ilusion of possesion.

 

[Robert28]

did she not show any signs of unhappieness or possible unfaithfulness BEFORE you got married? this usually baffles my mind. a guy will date a girl for however long and get married and THEN be suprised shes a traveling sl*t. i'm sure she gave signs of this BEFORE you two got hitched, maybe you just didn't see it. did she talk about her ex any while yall dated? it wasnt like yall were married, she was bored and thought "hmmm ill go see what my ex is up to and get a little bit while i'm at it". theres more to this story here. alot more.

 

[DonGorgon]

Marriage is another ilusion of possesion.

sooo bloody true... you can posses a woman on paper but in real life you will always have to share her with other men. Thats life