"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My weight training regimen

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Workout:
4 days per week
Monday Evening
Wednesday Evening
Friday Evening
Sunday Morning

No legs (yet)
Mostly arms and sixpack

3-4 sets per muscle group, 5-7 reps per set, 8-10 reps per set angled sit-ups


Diet:
I’ve got unlimited food pretty much (college); my goal is to eat as much as I can, with a focus on meeting high protein goals and exceeding the daily amount of Calcium.

Junk food:
Half a (small) pizza pie daily (for carbs)
Never any desert, unless they have chocolate chip cookies

Other:
Chicken, chicken and more chicken (must be about 1 pound)
Turkey
Tuna
3 Tall Cups of Chocolate Milk
1 Tall Cup of Orange or Cranberry Juice
1 Salad, with Spanish, Mushrooms, Cucumber, Carrots, and Tomato

Not taking a multivitamin yet.
Not keeping track of weight (yet).

Been about a week so far.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Master Homer
Workout:
4 days per week
Monday Evening
Wednesday Evening
Friday Evening
Sunday Morning

No legs (yet)
Mostly arms and sixpack



Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhahahahhahahahahahaha...... that is probably very close to one of the most ridiculous things i have ever read.

Yeah... good luck with your training buddy.
 

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Can you explain why? That's why I posted it.
 

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Dude.. there have been many posts to date regarding training/workout regimes... i personally have posted and given many (what i think) as being valuable examples.

And after reading those.. which i assume you "have" read at least a few.. you still post that you, dont train legs.... and you train mostly arms. Get a grip buddy.

Ps. Sorry about the personal attack also. It just amazes me sometimes at peoples way of thinking.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well I take the stairs up six flights at least 5 times a day. Plus half the time I'm doing situps incorrectly I'm training my legs, right? :)
 

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WTF?? I refuse to reply to this post anymore.

I cant belive what i am reading.. seriously.
 

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Training other muscle groups like legs and back makes a world of difference in terms of gains. Also, I don't know what you look like but training the abs isn't very important. The only thing you really need for a 6 pack is low body fat and good diet.
Sure, you can train your abs a bit but that should be your last priority.
Also the title of the thread is "weight training regimen" but you don't mention any of the exercises you do...
 

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Abs, both rectus abdominalis and obliques are really important in heavy lifts like squats and deadlifts as stabilizers, so having weak abs is not good if you want to lift heavy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sit-Up Looks Exactly Like This:
http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/RectusAbdominis/WtInclineSitUp.html

Bench Press:
http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/PectoralSternal/BBBenchPress.html

Miltary Press:
http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/DeltoidAnterior/BBMilitaryPress.html

Upright Row:
http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/DeltoidLateral/BBUprightRow.html

Wrist Curl (though I use seperate weights):
http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/WristFlexors/BBWristCurl.html

Again, no leg excerises. And the majority of my time is consumed with the sit-ups, ever since some oneitis girl said how much she loved six packs I've been obsessed with getting one.
 

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I tried doing Deadlifts but I swear I nearly broke my back in the process.
 

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What would you guys recommend as an effective leg excersise?

Also can anyone comment on the diet? Should I be taking protien supplements like whey poweder or can I get enough protien from normal food?
 

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Originally posted by Master Homer
I tried doing Deadlifts but I swear I nearly broke my back in the process.
haha... I had that happen to me once.
First, check your form and then forget about your ego and lift less weight.


Oh... when you said "mostly arms" I assumed you meant biceps + triceps, still you should try doing squats and I would suggest more exercises per body parts. For instance instead of only doing flat bench try adding some incline DB press and chest dips, etc...

And the majority of my time is consumed with the sit-ups
As far as I know (someone correct me if I'm wrong), doing a billion sit-ups/crunches isn't that useful. Try adding some weight instead or maybe do some other kind of abs exercises too.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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stop doing your situps, they're not going to give you a six pack.

Your diet is going to need to be way more strict if you want a six pack.

No pizza. no cookies.

The rest of that is ok.

Have one day a week as a carb loading day, but use whole wheat bread, and oatmeal.... etc.
 
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