"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My "way" of building confidence. Is it rude or not?

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i'm a college freshman and i've started making better eye contact when i talk to a girl. i still can't really approach random girls though.

i read somewhere that checking someone out shows a lot of confidence. not in a creepy way though.

basically when i make eye contact with a random girl i see when i'm walking around campus, i'll look her in the eye, give a quick "up and down" and look back into her eyes and then look away.

does this show confidence or is it just rude? i won't stare or anything. just a really quick glance to help build up my confidence in a way
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If she liked you doing it she would have smiled or looked back at some point.
 
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blinkwatt101 said:
If she liked you doing it she would have smiled or looked back at some point.
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didn't even do it yet. i mean just walking around campus doing it to all the hot girls i see and then just walking away. i'll approach when i feel comfortable enough.

taking small steps here.

would a girl find it offensive though? what would be a good comeback if she found it offensive?
 
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Why don't you just look into her eyes and when she looks at you smile at her?
 
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