"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"my voice"

Which Voice Sounded The Best???

  • Number 1 ( normal )

    Votes: 11 73.3%
  • Number 2 ( deep )

    Votes: 3 20.0%
  • Number 3 ( ****y )

    Votes: 1 6.7%

  • Total voters
    15

undesputable

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#2 and 3 are just funny. talk normal
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ForbesLtd

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
deep doesnt matter, what does matter is that you sound confident in what you say.
deep DOES matter (more than SIZE, actually)
proven by many studies, btw
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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deep only matters to an extent for initial attraction.. yes it may be something girls talk about.. but guys dont have t'n'a so what else would they talk about. confidence and manliness is associated with a deep voice. be a confident man and you'll sound like it.
 

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One of the best posts hahah
 

Juan_Man

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My voice is one of my more attractive qualities. It's very deep. Girls like it especially because I have a babyface.
 
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