"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My view on why women like dumb men they can SCORN.. READ it!!!!!!!!

Jackal

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Thumbs up, Pook. You know, I've had the pleasure of reading your collection of posts gathered from the early beginning till these recent months, and I'm pleased to comment the change I've noticed in your evolution as a ... umm, "Don Juan." I'm happy to see that you found a way past the common model of methods/techniques to one which you simply let everything flow; following in the path of nature and going "natural."

Without going into extreme details, I say that all you really need is a good understanding on the nature of women and what they are, and from having the proper beliefs about women, as well as yourself, you then, naturally, have the right attitude, which in turn influence and determine your outward behavior that help bear fruit of success or failure, depending on your beliefs/thinking.

Also, it seems that you are not unfamiliar with Sex and Character; I could be mistaken but I believe you know of what I speak. Well, I can say that for me personally, it has helped illuminate many insights as to certain questions I've still had on women and helped complete the missing pieces of the puzzle as to why certain things I've done worked, as well as shedding the light on the nature of what it is we've all observed in the many common trend issues regarding women in real life. It's one of the few materials that has had influence in completing my "journey", if you will (though it does sound rather corny LOL), and as you have also realized, I too know and understand that the way of methods and "philosophizing" is the path we must abandon and that going natural is ultimately where it's at. Like I've said, all you really need is the right understanding, the right beliefs (thinking), and going with the flow as nature intended.

Your more recent posts speak truth which I can testify from my own life. Keep up the good work.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Jackal

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Thumbs up, Pook. You know, I've had the pleasure of reading your collection of posts gathered from the early beginning till these recent months, and I'm pleased to comment the change I've noticed in your evolution as a ... umm, "Don Juan." I'm happy to see that you found a way past the common model of methods/techniques to one which you simply let everything flow; following in the path of nature and going "natural."

Without going into extreme details, I say that all you really need is a good understanding on the nature of women and what they are, and from having the proper beliefs about women, as well as yourself, you then, naturally, have the right attitude, which in turn influence and determine your outward behavior that help bear fruit of success or failure, depending on your beliefs/thinking.

Also, it seems that you are not unfamiliar with Sex and Character; I could be mistaken but I believe you know of what I speak. Well, I can say that for me personally, it has helped illuminate many insights as to certain questions I've still had on women and helped complete the missing pieces of the puzzle as to why certain things I've done worked, as well as shedding the light on the nature of what it is we've all observed in the many common trend issues regarding women in real life. It's one of the few materials that has had influence in completing my "journey", if you will (though it does sound rather corny LOL), and as you have also realized, I too know and understand that the way of methods and "philosophizing" is the path we must abandon and that going natural is ultimately where it's at. Like I've said, all you really need is the right understanding, the right beliefs (thinking), and going with the flow as nature intended.

Your more recent posts speak truth which I can testify from my own life. Keep up the good work.
 

Ricardo

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My girlfriend hates it when I talk about anything related to my work, because it is technical and (it is interesting to many girls who are in the field), but she can't understand it.

So guess what, I don't talk about it much with girls unless they are the type to listen.

Now guys do like guys in good shape. I started working out to avoid the 95 lb weakling that I was before too.

The only thing is that I'm still on the thin side with muscles, so girls don't really see it on me as much until I'm naked.

Oh well, it does seem to be if you take up alot of space, girls notice. Must be part of their need to be protected. What sucks for me is that I'm very strong for my size (175 lbs), but don't fit the big guy mold because of narrow shoulders.
 

Flyguy3663

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I know this isn't the health forum but a steady routine of shoulder presses, front&lateral raises, Rows and some Shoulder shrugs will get ur shoulders pumped and big
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nice one!! i agree with pook.

just me:
The number 1 reason women divorce their husbands is because she doesn't "feel heard" or "understood."
but we all know very well (with experience) that women dont mean wat they say. heck, they dont even know what they really mean!!

jackal (or anybody for that matter), cud u plz tell me how can i get pook's collection of posts??
 

skeeloo

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the bottom line is that women most of them, are too insecure and cant compete with a man that has his **** together, thats why you see jobless men with women becuase thats what makes this women feel in control and powefull, its a shame society has come this.
 
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