“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJnoob

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from all the stuff i've read about looks, maybe the bottom line is women who are still IMMATURE like under the age of 25 care about looks more than women who are mature aged over 25+ or women who are ready to settle down

As for us guys, we care about looks.. period! and it don't matter how old we are.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KontrollerX

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I think a guy just has to look at least average to have a chance with just about any woman as long as he's got the DJ skills down and can apply them in real life situations.
 

NSUballer

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So youre sayin women older than 25 dont care about how attractive a guy is when theyre lookin for a guy to date??
 

LuciferSam

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But you get those girls who are influenced by their friends. The younger girls who would probably say they fancy Bob Hoskins if all her friends said they did!
so fancying someone the group does not admire would make her feel guilty.

Its p1ss poor when a woman can't like who they want. Yep, it is all subjective.
 

NSUballer

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Why do so many of you think that younger girls are so heavily influenced by their friends. are you talking about 14 or 15 year-olds because ive never seen any evidence of a girl not being attracted to a guy just because her friends dont think he is.....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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khash

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Why are girls influenced by friends?

SOCIAL CONDITIONING. the essence of how evolution has gotten to where we are. girls are very weak minded, they tend to follow the strogest trend in progress. What others say about someone else affects them unconciosuly and they start to see attractive qualities that they did not see before simply do to placebo effect.

There are guys that are universally attractive, my self being one. these guys get recognition and positive response from every race and 95% of female population .... that is if they got the DJ skills down.
 

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I've got to agree in part with NSUballer here.

While i know how a girls friends can alter how they view a guy, even how hot they think he is, the attraction level is still decided by her. And when she's with a guy, it's decided by how he is making her feel... which is partly how she is percieving him and how good he is at making her feel specific emotions.

Of course if she hears her friends say her guy doesn't look so good she'll begin to question that, and if she begins to associate negative feelings to that appearance it can effect how much she'll feel attraction to him. It's all about how that women associates specific feelings to specific looks.

That ties into the whole age thing to. As a woman ages her associations between looks and attractiveness changes based on her experiences.

Still you can't ever forget that all of our views on what is hot or not is controlled by not just us but by those around us. There are many posts and threads on this, so i don't think i should bore people any longer, lol.
 
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