"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My View on "LOOKS"

DJnoob

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from all the stuff i've read about looks, maybe the bottom line is women who are still IMMATURE like under the age of 25 care about looks more than women who are mature aged over 25+ or women who are ready to settle down

As for us guys, we care about looks.. period! and it don't matter how old we are.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KontrollerX

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I think a guy just has to look at least average to have a chance with just about any woman as long as he's got the DJ skills down and can apply them in real life situations.
 

NSUballer

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So youre sayin women older than 25 dont care about how attractive a guy is when theyre lookin for a guy to date??
 

LuciferSam

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But you get those girls who are influenced by their friends. The younger girls who would probably say they fancy Bob Hoskins if all her friends said they did!
so fancying someone the group does not admire would make her feel guilty.

Its p1ss poor when a woman can't like who they want. Yep, it is all subjective.
 

NSUballer

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Why do so many of you think that younger girls are so heavily influenced by their friends. are you talking about 14 or 15 year-olds because ive never seen any evidence of a girl not being attracted to a guy just because her friends dont think he is.....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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khash

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Why are girls influenced by friends?

SOCIAL CONDITIONING. the essence of how evolution has gotten to where we are. girls are very weak minded, they tend to follow the strogest trend in progress. What others say about someone else affects them unconciosuly and they start to see attractive qualities that they did not see before simply do to placebo effect.

There are guys that are universally attractive, my self being one. these guys get recognition and positive response from every race and 95% of female population .... that is if they got the DJ skills down.
 

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I've got to agree in part with NSUballer here.

While i know how a girls friends can alter how they view a guy, even how hot they think he is, the attraction level is still decided by her. And when she's with a guy, it's decided by how he is making her feel... which is partly how she is percieving him and how good he is at making her feel specific emotions.

Of course if she hears her friends say her guy doesn't look so good she'll begin to question that, and if she begins to associate negative feelings to that appearance it can effect how much she'll feel attraction to him. It's all about how that women associates specific feelings to specific looks.

That ties into the whole age thing to. As a woman ages her associations between looks and attractiveness changes based on her experiences.

Still you can't ever forget that all of our views on what is hot or not is controlled by not just us but by those around us. There are many posts and threads on this, so i don't think i should bore people any longer, lol.
 
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