Distant Light
Master Don Juan
I had read a post talking about this site and i realized my reply was going to be long so i said might as well make my last and final post talking about what is wrong with this site.
Ever since i've learned a fair amount about seduction i've been wanting to help alot of people so they can experience what i experience. I find the "Game" very fun and exciting.
The problem about this site is a few things:
Loads of Newbies
KJs
Bad material
No dedication
Loads of Newbies
I've finally realized that this place is really flooded with newbies, its not really there fault because they don't really get good advice and learning alot of wrong things.
Look at some of the ways newbies are approaching for example...
DJ: Hi
HB: Hi
DJ: Are you from around here
DJ: yes
1-2 mins fluff
DJ: Are you single
Hb: No i have a hb
Then its over your like "fuvk fuvk why did she reject me" keeps trying and finnally you get lucky and get a number and you say yes i got a number. Then after saying his newbie questions and getting some bad feedback. (some good) He hasn't got laid yet but he now thinks he knows alot about the game since he been here for 3 years and have been in the field but took him for ever to get numbers and he kept getting flaked. So he starts to give advice saying stuff like
"This is a numbers game just keep trying"
"WTF is Canned material all that PUA stuff is stupid just read the DJ bible and your all good" (Like if that going to make u a elite DJ)
So then the cycle happens over and over as newbies keep coming in. If you actually think about it look how many people are here that are still virgins.
KJs
Then you got the keyborad jockeys reading everything on the site, remembers the exact date each post that was posted and who made them, they are like a living archives. Thing is they don't try any of this so they mainly give advice off of there own theory and not from experience and good judgement. They then always telling people "Read the damn DJ bible" as if that is really going to help him. Some even flame as if they know wtf there talking about saying "You AFC you spoke to her for 5mins and 2 secs on the phone" or "You called her on a wed and you got the number on monday what a AFC you should have waited 4 days"
So then the newbies keep listening to the KJs and wondering wtf why haven't he got laid or why he can't consistently get girls.
Bad Material
Another big mistake is all the bad material that is on here its like diggin in a desert looking for a plant which you then realize there are only a few cactus and even out of the few cactus's there are just a few that are good. As a guy said in another post this is like a self improvement site. I find this site mainly consist of inner game
Talks so much about inner game and you still got guys sitting down scared to try anything because they don't know wtf to say and isn't confident because he really doesn't have much guidance. Look at most of the posts considered good its mainly about inner game. Only technique you really read on this site is C&F and kino which actually helps some of the people on this site. But truthfully sit hear and think and answer these questions...
How many of you guys would know confidently know how to approach a girl and actually lay her?
How many of you guys actually can lay consisently?
How many of you guys can consistently number close and actually be able to follow up and actually get layed from those girls?
How many of you guys actually think the girls that yall laid, was from solid game and wasn't really much luck?
All these questions if answered truthfully would show most of the material here is just for a good conversation.
You maybe wondering wtf accomplishments have you have from learning about seduction? Well for one before i came here i actually did get layed 3 times
which i got laid when i was 13 so thats about 1 lay a year since i just turned 17. After being apart of the seduction world for 3 months i've got layed by 6 girls and i've got about 6 open options right now. Reason i was able to get where i am so quick is because i've tryed new things to see what would work and wouldn't and also i was dedicated to learning about this because i was fascinated about knowing "you didn't have to look good to get girls" (look at the guy in one of David d angelo dvds in a wheel chair as some guy refered to in another post.)
NO Dedication
Everyone complain they want to get girls they want to get layed. But how hard do yall try? If you were dedicated to learning this you would get out of your comfort zone and try approaching and testing things. For those who actually do approach if you noticed once you start approaching you don't feel like stopping you just want to keep going. Also most guys here give up so easily, they would try something and then be like o this sh!t don't work, or "this girl was just being a bitvh" (She was just being a bitvh to you i know for sure she don't act like that with her bf)
Final Words
This is some of the main reasons why this board is getting worst and worst my advice to all you Newbies and KJs is to have fun and go out there approaching. I think all people should atleast learn
1. Inner game - Some form of inner game to guide you on what is afc and what is not. (some things are borderline between AFC and non AFC) I recommend not to get too into inner game as you then begin to think that all these inner game rules are slammed in stone.
2.Technique - This is what SoSauve really lacks in. Learn about wtf your actually doing, stop acting like this is a something you just rush in and out. Stop trying to gain damn rapport when you first meet her then trying to dive in for the number and its only been 2-5 mins in the set.(Mightt be lucky and it might work) Learn some of the little techniques, games , routines and just add it in your game that way you have a mixture of natural and canned an everything seems natural.
Important things you should atleast know before going into the field are...
A. StoryTelling (constructing your own stories)
B. Roleplaying (learning to roleplay with a girl)
C. Learning to open a girl properly
D. Learning how to DHV
E. Learning how to be C&F
F. Learning how to apply Kino and Kino escaltion
G. Learning when the right time to stop building rapport
IF you learn just those few things and apply them you can go a long way.
I'm thinking about posting alot of tips on different things for you "open minded" ppl, because this is what i really think alot of newbies never learn how to actually do solid game.
~Distant Light~
Ever since i've learned a fair amount about seduction i've been wanting to help alot of people so they can experience what i experience. I find the "Game" very fun and exciting.
The problem about this site is a few things:
Loads of Newbies
KJs
Bad material
No dedication
Loads of Newbies
I've finally realized that this place is really flooded with newbies, its not really there fault because they don't really get good advice and learning alot of wrong things.
Look at some of the ways newbies are approaching for example...
DJ: Hi
HB: Hi
DJ: Are you from around here
DJ: yes
1-2 mins fluff
DJ: Are you single
Hb: No i have a hb
Then its over your like "fuvk fuvk why did she reject me" keeps trying and finnally you get lucky and get a number and you say yes i got a number. Then after saying his newbie questions and getting some bad feedback. (some good) He hasn't got laid yet but he now thinks he knows alot about the game since he been here for 3 years and have been in the field but took him for ever to get numbers and he kept getting flaked. So he starts to give advice saying stuff like
"This is a numbers game just keep trying"
"WTF is Canned material all that PUA stuff is stupid just read the DJ bible and your all good" (Like if that going to make u a elite DJ)
So then the cycle happens over and over as newbies keep coming in. If you actually think about it look how many people are here that are still virgins.
KJs
Then you got the keyborad jockeys reading everything on the site, remembers the exact date each post that was posted and who made them, they are like a living archives. Thing is they don't try any of this so they mainly give advice off of there own theory and not from experience and good judgement. They then always telling people "Read the damn DJ bible" as if that is really going to help him. Some even flame as if they know wtf there talking about saying "You AFC you spoke to her for 5mins and 2 secs on the phone" or "You called her on a wed and you got the number on monday what a AFC you should have waited 4 days"
So then the newbies keep listening to the KJs and wondering wtf why haven't he got laid or why he can't consistently get girls.
Bad Material
Another big mistake is all the bad material that is on here its like diggin in a desert looking for a plant which you then realize there are only a few cactus and even out of the few cactus's there are just a few that are good. As a guy said in another post this is like a self improvement site. I find this site mainly consist of inner game
Talks so much about inner game and you still got guys sitting down scared to try anything because they don't know wtf to say and isn't confident because he really doesn't have much guidance. Look at most of the posts considered good its mainly about inner game. Only technique you really read on this site is C&F and kino which actually helps some of the people on this site. But truthfully sit hear and think and answer these questions...
How many of you guys would know confidently know how to approach a girl and actually lay her?
How many of you guys actually can lay consisently?
How many of you guys can consistently number close and actually be able to follow up and actually get layed from those girls?
How many of you guys actually think the girls that yall laid, was from solid game and wasn't really much luck?
All these questions if answered truthfully would show most of the material here is just for a good conversation.
You maybe wondering wtf accomplishments have you have from learning about seduction? Well for one before i came here i actually did get layed 3 times
which i got laid when i was 13 so thats about 1 lay a year since i just turned 17. After being apart of the seduction world for 3 months i've got layed by 6 girls and i've got about 6 open options right now. Reason i was able to get where i am so quick is because i've tryed new things to see what would work and wouldn't and also i was dedicated to learning about this because i was fascinated about knowing "you didn't have to look good to get girls" (look at the guy in one of David d angelo dvds in a wheel chair as some guy refered to in another post.)NO Dedication
Everyone complain they want to get girls they want to get layed. But how hard do yall try? If you were dedicated to learning this you would get out of your comfort zone and try approaching and testing things. For those who actually do approach if you noticed once you start approaching you don't feel like stopping you just want to keep going. Also most guys here give up so easily, they would try something and then be like o this sh!t don't work, or "this girl was just being a bitvh" (She was just being a bitvh to you i know for sure she don't act like that with her bf)
Final Words
This is some of the main reasons why this board is getting worst and worst my advice to all you Newbies and KJs is to have fun and go out there approaching. I think all people should atleast learn
1. Inner game - Some form of inner game to guide you on what is afc and what is not. (some things are borderline between AFC and non AFC) I recommend not to get too into inner game as you then begin to think that all these inner game rules are slammed in stone.
2.Technique - This is what SoSauve really lacks in. Learn about wtf your actually doing, stop acting like this is a something you just rush in and out. Stop trying to gain damn rapport when you first meet her then trying to dive in for the number and its only been 2-5 mins in the set.(Mightt be lucky and it might work) Learn some of the little techniques, games , routines and just add it in your game that way you have a mixture of natural and canned an everything seems natural.
Important things you should atleast know before going into the field are...
A. StoryTelling (constructing your own stories)
B. Roleplaying (learning to roleplay with a girl)
C. Learning to open a girl properly
D. Learning how to DHV
E. Learning how to be C&F
F. Learning how to apply Kino and Kino escaltion
G. Learning when the right time to stop building rapport
IF you learn just those few things and apply them you can go a long way.
I'm thinking about posting alot of tips on different things for you "open minded" ppl, because this is what i really think alot of newbies never learn how to actually do solid game.
~Distant Light~