"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My Un-Healable Lip!

Dante3214

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Grr... this is bothering me!

It is not always that my lip is dry, but it seems that it always shreds or tears apart and it never seems to fully heal up.

I use some medicated blistex stuff, and I occasionally dunk my lip in water (seriously) to keep it from getting dry.

When the skin grows back it turns pink again, but it never fully comes back before it gets ripped off again (either by picking at it because its cracking, drying, or when it gets gooey and you're forced to pull it off...). Anything I can do to help my lip out? or should I just stop messing with it altogether and just wait a week and see if it works out...?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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penkitten

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you might have a vitamin b deficiency and you should take a multi vitamin b stress tablet every day. in two weeks time you will see a difference if that is the problem.

my sons does this and it gets bad in the corners. it gets raw then it scabs up etc. when he takes his vitamins it gets well again.
 

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It could be sun damage. Do you go outside a lot without lip balm? It could also be from dehydration.
 

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i have the same problem, moisturising doesn't seem to work.
i'll look into vitamin B
 

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Go to a quack's, you bum.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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penkitten

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my son had a dr that told us about the vitamin b thing
 
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