"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My two exes are being friendly with each other

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Peaks&Valleys

Peaks&Valleys

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Yeah, get them to do a threesome.
 
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Married Buried

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I can guarantee one thing they are scheming against you to screw you royally the hardest way possible. This is the world we are living in, everyone is out to screw you so watch out. My ears are wide open now and I have this strange suspicion that my ex knows the current girl i'm seeing... worst case scenario is my ex sent this chic to meet me for what reason? Who knows but the end result is to screw me royally. Would an ex really send a new girl to meet me? I doubt it since women usually hate each other unless they have some real wicked plan laid out. I would say worse case scenario would be they are planning to cry rape or something.

I am suspicious due to the fact i met her on the same site as my ex and she is from a state my ex used to visit and the ex has friends there.

Also we were talking the other day and the new girl used words from the most recent thread I made about my ex.. she used the word "upgrade" and also "don't make the same mistakes again" like she read that thread because I said those same phrases in the thread.

Coincidence? It could all be in my mind too and coincidence but it seems strange. My ex used to do the same thing when I made threads about her... when we were talking she would use words I posted in the thread making it obvious she read them.

Am I being paranoid? At least now if something happens I have my suspicions in writing and have you people as witnesses.
 
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Dear Ackles,
Sounds like an unholy alliance LOL.
 
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