"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My Two Bits Worth

phil2015

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Hey Guys

I've been on here a while now, and whilst I have been given a lot of golden advice on relationships over the years I feel it is time I have something back to you all for what I have learned.

I don't claim to be a pook/corey wayne/Doc love but there are a few things I have learnt and I've created a list. Feel free to let me know what you think it add to them, and I hope I can help some of you out there.


1) Never act or display to a woman that you are more interested in her than she is in you.

2) Never double text - Always wait for her to reply, it appears over eager

3) Don't assume she does not like you. I've had girls I've never spoken to in my life approach me and tell me they've fancied me for age

4) Never be the first to say you love her.

5) Always let her be the one to bring up marridge, kids, future etc.

6) The 'silent treatment' is almost abusive and is a form of emotional torture. Don't stand for a woman who leaves you hanging, instead find one who can communicate her problems

7) Don't assume she has a high level of interest just because she has sex with you

8) Always use a condom. No exceptions. I learned this the hard way

9) Always trust your gut instinct, even if you don't like what it tells you. This is the voice of God

10) If a woman has worst trust and anger issues than you it won't work.

11) You should go at two speeds in a relationship. Slow and Stop

12) There are always more important things in life than your girlfriend. Family, children, job must come first

13) Don't fall for looks alone

14) No matter how amazing she will seem, remember at some point someone was sick of her sh@t.

15) If she cheats, shes gone. If she avoids your family, she's gone

16) Always go off her actions, not by what she says. I had a girl recently tell me loved me and would do anything for me in the morning, only to dump me spontaneously in the afternoon

Hope these help

Yours

Phil
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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