"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My tired observation for the night.

KillaCam

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It’s official, I feel like breaking someone’s neck.

I will not dwell on anything, except the fact that as men, you need to grab your balls and do things for yourself in life. Common sense and guts seem to be two qualities severely lacking on this forum right now.

You do not need to ask for permission. You do not leave yourself at the mercy of a girls needs. You do not need to be some canned-up-SoSuave-studying joker who does everything by the book.

There is a reason why we are not made in factories, because we are individuals. We share the common theme of having a schlong, but we are each very different people. What works for me may not work for you. Don’t be just another Don Juan, be your own Don Juan.

Learn! SoSuave is not there for you when you see a hot chick in the street. Learn and apply, adapt and succeed. At SoSuave, you should never ask for answers. You should ask for advice and tools to get your own damn answers.

Every once in a while, throw yourself in the deep end. Be prepared to fail. When you fail, you understand the flaws in yourself, then you can change them. SoSuave is not a reference point, it is not your crutch. It’s just a tool in your arsenal. There is a huge lack of independency on this board, and a distinct trend of needing someone to hold their hand has arisen.

Just go out there and do it.

P.S. – But we are always here if you truly need us :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MuayThai

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KillaCam said:
I will not dwell on anything, except the fact that as men, you need to grab your balls and do things for yourself in life. Common sense and guts seem to be two qualities severely lacking on this forum right now.
Fuvking good for you. If the guys here realised what you said, there would be no forum, we'd all be doing what we should be. Being men.

Five stars.
 
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