Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

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I've been actively reading this site for about 7-8 months now. This is what I've learned, a mix of some of the points of the best posts I read around here, as well as my own insights.

1. To lead, to rule, a man must be strong like a lion and smart like a fox.

2. Women love leaders.

3. You can not make another person love you. They have to want to first.

4. You can, however, take steps to make women, in general, far more attracted to you.

5. Be the prize.

6. When meeting a new person, do not ask "Will he/she like me?" Ask, "I wonder if I'll like this person?"

7. Dress well. Take care of youself.

8. Walk like you have a purpose, with confidence.

9. Doing 7 and 8 will put you in the the top 10% of men who turn women on just by walking in the room.

10. Everything in the past is in the past. Learn from it if you need to, then forget it.

11. No woman is perfect or the one. No woman is even close.

12. No woman is "worth" it if all you feel around her is pain, or loneliness, or insecurity.

13. Be bold.

14. Act as if you already have it.

15. A is A

16. Buy some really nice shoes. At least two pairs of really nice shoes.

17. If you are ever walking and you are seeing those shoes, you are looking the wrong way.

18. Never give up on anything that really matters to you.

19. Your mind can be your most valuable assest or your worst enemny. Either you will control it or it will control you.

20. If you've learn to control your thoughts, the world will have seemed to changed, but really it is you that have changed.

21. You can do whatever you want, if you work for it.

22. You are in control of your future. There are no acts of god.

23. Go to the gym. Far too many people don't care about their own bodies, just look around and see that. They'd rather sue McDonalds when they get fat than work to look good.

24. Doing 7, 8 and 23 will put you in the top 1% of men who can walk into a room and turn women on.

25. "Be a man."

26. A man has a purpose, and is unfraid to follow his dreams.

27. You can go as far as you want to go.

28. There a millions of hot women out there. Don't focus on one in particular.

29. You either have it or you don't. If you want to get it, You've got to start somewhere.

30. If you don't have it, fake it. In time, you'll get it.

31. Act as if you already have it.

32. Self doubt is only destructive. Squash self doubt every day.

33. It's lonely at the top.

34. It's far worse to be at the bottom.

35. If you think of "all womankind" as symbolic of "beauty" you are wrong. Men can be far more beautiful than a woman could ever be when we exhibt strength, virtue, and a nice body.

36. If still in doubt about 35, clarification: Rosie O'Donald is a woman, technically speaking.

37. Women are not innocent.

38. Women want a man who makes them wet. All women want a hard body and a hard ****.

39. Women want to have incredible, hot, mind blowing earth shaking sex with a man who makes them feel incredible.

40. Women want whatever they think they want, at that moment.

41. Women want a man to make them FEEL good about themselves. (Sounds AFC right?)

42. Women do not want, and are not looking, for nice guys.

43. Women are looking for sparks.

43. Give friction.

44. ***** kills. You got to be strong to handle it.

45. Money does make the world go round.

46. ****y and funny = "friction" = sparks = sex.

47. Be an individual. Don't play follow the leader. Be the leader.

48. The nerdly intellectual will tell you he's smarter than you. The big jock will tell you he's stronger than you. The other guy will tell you he runs his business better than you. Don't listen to them.

49. Don't go out of your way to please others.

50. It's far better to be kind than to turn into one of those *******s who hates life.

51. If you are unhappy, the root of your unhappiness lies within yourself. Outside forces are not the cause of your unhappiness.

52. There's no reason to be unhappy.

53. Word hard in whatever you choose to do. Don't do anything half ass. Give it all you got.

54. Women are secondary.

55. Success breeds confidence. Confidence breeds children, so wear a condom.

56. I said, Wear a ****ing condom!

57. There some crazy *****es.. "A DJ knows not every woman is worth dating."

58. Have hobbies and interests. It makes meeting people a lot easier.

59. Women play games. Don't be too trusting. Your trust should be, and must be earned, not given.

60. Look at what they DO, not what they SAY.

61. Tabitha Stevenson is one hell of a hot pornstar.

62. You can know 1-61 by heart, and believe it all, and you'll still end up jacking off to Tabitha Stevenson videos on Saturday nights UNLESS YOU GET UP OFF YOUR ASS, GET OUT OF THE HOUSE, and GET YOUR GAME ON!

LionFox

Strong like a lion, smart like a fox
 

Ricky

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I love it, especially the way you finished it with 61 and 62, it brought it all home.

5 stars!
 

sux2bu

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Originally posted by LionFox
11. No woman is perfect or the one. No woman is even close.

This is half the battle right here.
 

LionFox

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44. (Revised) "pVssy Kills. You gotta be strong to handle it for real.." -Rapper NAS, - From God's Son, 2003.. =)

it's an excellent, eye opening song, by the way..
 

Dev86

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Great Post, man.....and I love the reference to Ayn Rand (A is A)
 

Derek Flint

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That post belongs in the DJ Bible.

I hereby nominate it.
 

jakethasnake

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Rock solid. 5 Stars.
 

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I like it! :D
 

LionFox

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DJ Fedorov.. "PVssy kills" is the name of it.. But, it's only on the verison of God's Son that comes with the second CD. If you didn't get it, try a search on Kaazaa for it, and download the unedited verison..

As an aside, another small tip from me is get into black music. This will help you tremendously with the ladies... Several years ago i listened only to alternative rock and goth, being the unhappy little twit I was back in the day.

True story: Last year, I went to this party hosted by the two hot women, one a 10 and one a 8. They had the stereo blasting, and they asked what CD's i brought.. it was Testament's The Gathering and Rancid's Out comes the wolves.. Great albums, but when the girls popped them in, it was an immediate turn off. Angry and depressing stuff like thats could give chicks the wrong impression of you.. So I watched the girls dancing to hip hop all night that night, and decided maybe there was something to this.

Later, at the end of the year, I was at another party with the same two girls. Me, having grown a little in DJ-ism, invited one of them to dance. She actually said.. "I know what kind of music you like, and I'm not so sure.."

So I poped in my mix cd that started with Jay-z "I just want to love you", and the look on her face was gold, like complete shock. I started getting close to her, singing the words back to her, she was loving it... needless to say it changed their impression of me for good..

i've never meet a classy HB who doesn't dig R&B...
 

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Superb! One of the best posts I've ever read! Consise, to the point and easy to understand!

Everyone should read this everyday for the rest of their lives!!!!!
 

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Superb, Lionfox.

Not as concise, in my opinion, as Monkey makes out! A condensed version would be fantastic, and a great motivator for all DJs.
 
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