"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My threads are getting deleted and I know why!

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This thread is to the moderators(It will probaly get deleted) but let me say something when I post something lately my thread has been getting deleted and I know its you moderators.I dont even know why I bother coming to this site since you guys delete all my threads.I know you have all the power but why is when I post something like today I made a topic on bullying which really happened you guys deleted.Now how am I goining to handle the situation since there was good advice on there.Once you moderator see my threads you say"His Thread is Useless delete it" Thats unfair there are some useless threads here that should be deleted and I know mine aren't one of them.My threads help the forum by how you ask?Well first I have to learn with life issues then I can work on women.Remeber my own priorities and life comes first before women.And you guys are also closing some of my threads I don't know why maybe its because when I get too many replys you guys hate that and delete it or close.Well I wouldn't be surprised if you moderators delete this thread or lock it.I guess its against the forum for me to speak my opinions or life issues on these thread,because thats basically what you guys are doing to me.Well thats all I wanted to posted I hope you guys atleast read these before you delete it or lock it.Thank you for your time!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rant.


I do not fully know all the reasons why your threads are closed, but here are several possible reasons:

1. they started getting political/religious
2. pointless
3. questions about stuff that have already been answered and you should DAFS
4. along with 3, your comment is very similar to the other countless threads of similar threads
5. its a conspiracy(and I am elvis hiding out in SOuth America)
6. the mods might not read your thread too closely, and it might have seemed too short.
7. maybe they think you are a troll.

just some thoughts
 

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You should not post your life sories here, no one here can help you, NO ONE!!!


You should get into the reality, get in there. Your are 17 years old and you are totaly capabile of leading your own life. read Dj bible if you wanna score chiks, TAKE KARATE LESSONS IF YOU WANNA KICKS SOMEONEs BUTT, take english class to learn english! hope this helps
 

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wavejams007 said:
rant.


I do not fully know all the reasons why your threads are closed, but here are several possible reasons:

1. they started getting political/religious
2. pointless
3. questions about stuff that have already been answered and you should DAFS
4. along with 3, your comment is very similar to the other countless threads of similar threads
5. its a conspiracy(and I am elvis hiding out in SOuth America)
6. the mods might not read your thread too closely, and it might have seemed too short.
7. maybe they think you are a troll.

just some thoughts
1.)Well actaully I NEVER EVER posted a political/religious thread or post

2.)And my threads are not pointless,because if they are then your saying my life is pointless,which at times I thought they were but I got advice on here helping to change.My threads have reasons and the bible doesn't cover what some of my threads are like bullying and other life situations.I know this is a place to talk about females about inorder for to be doing that I have to get these issues settle out first but the moderators aren't helping by deleting my threads.

3.)I do not have the same questions everyday,I have different questions that have not been answered

4.)Not all my threads are similar,nope I actually have a thread about me approaching females at the mall.

5.)I think the moderators think my threads are wasting space which is not true they are actually useful.

6.)Well actually there way shorter threads then mine and the mods still delete my thread.

7.) And im defintely not a troll,if they think that way thats just sad.
 

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shydude said:
You should not post your life sories here, no one here can help you, NO ONE!!!


You should get into the reality, get in there. Your are 17 years old and you are totaly capabile of leading your own life. read Dj bible if you wanna score chiks, TAKE KARATE LESSONS IF YOU WANNA KICKS SOMEONEs BUTT, take english class to learn english! hope this helps
Not all of them are about my life stories actually if I was capabile of leading my own life I wouldn't need the forum thats why I ask advice but the mods aren't helping by deleting.I have read the DJ bible and it doesn't cover everything.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DreamX....you're ****ing pathetic. Honestly, I've never heard of anyone as hopeless as you.
 

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Luke... where's it at?
 

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No, the probable reason is because the Mods started knocking everyone of Viper's threads if they aren't of a success. I see no difference, but prove me wrong.
 
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Seriously Dreamx someone needs to tell you the truth... you really need to get a LIFE. You post 5 posts per day and is "senior DJ" :eek: already don't waste ur time making threads about ur problems but spend some time trying to FIX those problems so you don't make useless threads for others, it wastes both ur time, mine and the moderators. Get a F*cking grip there's so many others who are more unfortunate than you, pull ur sh*t together and START BEING MORE PROACTIVE and stop b*tching.
 

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DreamX....you're ****ing pathetic. Honestly, I've never heard of anyone as hopeless as you.
OMG your still here man I thought they banned your ass. I really dont care about your opinion.Before you post on my topics or any topics VegasGuy please read this rule that the moderators made:

2. If a newbie posts, do NOT flame them, harass them, insult them, ect. That is my job. But no, just leave them alone. If you have helpful advice, post it. Otherwise, shut up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Docs said:
No, the probable reason is because the Mods started knocking everyone of Viper's threads if they aren't of a success. I see no difference, but prove me wrong.
Well me and viper are two different people. I believe my threads have a purpose and they should be read,and they should not delete someone's thread just because it isn't success story doesn't mean they have to delete it am right?This place is to help people so if someone has a problem advice should be given and thats the purpose of the thread.
 

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PeterNorthisawesome said:
Seriously Dreamx someone needs to tell you the truth... you really need to get a LIFE. You post 5 posts per day and is "senior DJ" :eek: already don't waste ur time making threads about ur problems but spend some time trying to FIX those problems so you don't make useless threads for others, it wastes both ur time, mine and the moderators. Get a F*cking grip there's so many others who are more unfortunate than you, pull ur sh*t together and START BEING MORE PROACTIVE and stop b*tching.
Well I hope you read this rule PeterNorthisawesome
2. If a newbie posts, do NOT flame them, harass them, insult them, ect. That is my job. But no, just leave them alone. If you have helpful advice, post it. Otherwise, shut up.

Because what you posted is insulting me not helping me or to this forum you said I need a life am right?Well thats why im on this site you ****en idiot to learn how to get a life.Man before you post anything read my thread carefully!
 

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You ****ing retard. If you think you have to learn HOW to get a life you have no ****ing clue. It's a choice, either you want it or not.

You obviously don't want it. If you wanted it, you'd be out doing something.
 

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Bvbidd said:
You ****ing retard. If you think you have to learn HOW to get a life you have no ****ing clue. It's a choice, either you want it or not.

You obviously don't want it. If you wanted it, you'd be out doing something.
Well first of all if you read my posts and other threads closely you would know why.I do want a life but how can I get if I dont have friends, and were will go if everyone thinks im a loser?answer those questions thats why im on this forum to learn how to make myself a better person so I won't be a loser and I will fix my life and get one!And I do want a life thats why I ask advice you idiot.And man any of you guys need to read this that the moderator typed/posted:

2. If a newbie posts, do NOT flame them, harass them, insult them, ect. That is my job. But no, just leave them alone. If you have helpful advice, post it. Otherwise, shut up.

So what you posted is an insult,see people are just insulting me rather then advice.Theres a difference between insult and advice so before any of you guys call me loser or retarted read that rule the moderator himself wrote otherwise dont post ****.
 

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OMFG!!!!!! SOMEONE LOCK THIS THREAD!!!!!!! It has nothing to do with what this forum is made!! DREAMX!! PLEASE get off and go to sleep!! RELAX!! TAKE A BREAK DREAMX!!! I am FUKKING BEGGING YOU!!! THIS is getting GAY!! This forum is turning GAY!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lol @ shydude well this thread was ment for the moderators to read.I really dont mind if it gets locked.But I just wanted to know why the moderators delete my threads and posts.No offense you guys shouldn't even be in this topic or posting on this thread.It was ment for me and the moderators to discuss if my threads should stay or give me reasons why it is getting deleted.I will go to sleep soon,lol my eyes are big.
 

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shydude said:
OMFG!!!!!! SOMEONE LOCK THIS THREAD!!!!!!! It has nothing to do with what this forum is made!! DREAMX!! PLEASE get off and go to sleep!! RELAX!! TAKE A BREAK DREAMX!!! I am FUKKING BEGGING YOU!!! THIS is getting GAY!! This forum is turning GAY!!
You're not exactly helping it with those kinds of comments though, are you?

And Dreamx, dude, I think it's important that you try to look at the DJ Bible and find the answers to things. I know that everything isn't in the DJ Bible, but the basic principals are still there. If someone bullies you, you treat them just like a woman; C+F, right? If your parents are pissing you off, what do you do? You find something that allows you to take your mind off of your angry feelings (like working out or something, not playing video games) and do it. All of the answers are there if you truly look. Good luck man.
 

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Don't read the bible or read any more of this, you read the bible and now just keep complaining and begging for help. Stop thinking about any of this ****.

Dreamx just go do something. This advice is for your own good.

Mabye you'll make a friend.
 

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You're not exactly helping it with those kinds of comments though, are you?

And Dreamx, dude, I think it's important that you try to look at the DJ Bible and find the answers to things. I know that everything isn't in the DJ Bible, but the basic principals are still there. If someone bullies you, you treat them just like a woman; C+F, right? If your parents are pissing you off, what do you do? You find something that allows you to take your mind off of your angry feelings (like working out or something, not playing video games) and do it. All of the answers are there if you truly look. Good luck man.
FINALLY!!!Someone actually posted a good comment that makes sense.Dude mr rogers that is a perfect post and good advice.You know what I will need to read the DJ bible,but yeah treating a bully with c+F never though about that.Well I think everyone needs to post more stuff like Mr.Rogers good post ;)
 

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Don't read the bible or read any more of this, you read the bible and now just keep complaining and begging for help. Stop thinking about any of this ****.

Dreamx just go do something. This advice is for your own good.

Mabye you'll make a friend.
Im not trying to argue but when did I post a complain on this thread?If you can prove me wrong then i'll go read a dj bible book.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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