This is a copy of my response to a question from another thread, and mods, please don't move this to the tips section because i like my posts replied to, it makes me feel good about myself 
(im serious)
Hope this helps, ...no fvck it - it WILL help if you (u know who u are) stop being your nerd-selves, stop arguing, and actually listen and understand.
Now I dont wanna make no confusion, I'm no certified mack, but I'm someone who is working on himself and making progress. Neither am i claiming to be an expert at clubbing, someone who been there 100's of times. However I have been to differnt clubs in MA and RI,
But most times i went to club Rehab (Hip Hop, then Techno, 18+) in Worcester, very diverse, has all kinds of races of people, as well as more/better girls. Im Russian, and some girls feel me, some don't... when im "in the zone", or in that sexual state, I most likely do well, and many girls with get freaky wit me.
Now heres some trends i noticed that I can tell you about, regarding other guys:
-majority of guys in the club, regardless of race look somewhat awkward/uncomfortable. Even though they may have the right appearance (well-dressed, muscular, etc)... Stand around and do nothing.
-successful are some tall, skinny white guys, who seem to know the chicks already/have some social proof
-also some shorter guys who look more tan, perhaps puertorican, mediterranean, jewish, Brazillian, Indian watever. Not big dudes, and have this doochebaggy appearance with spikey hair, piercings, etc... kind of weird looking ones. They seem to do well.
-Guys who are more "Alpha looking", jacked, masculine etc. seem to NOT have as much success.
-muscles don't matter in the club, as long as your body doesnt carry 50+ lbs of xtra fat, you're fine.
-Black people mostly stand around hoping some girl approaches them, so not that good either.
.......
-The best "club-goer" i know is my friend, who has basically no social proof (walk into the club UNKNOWN) cuz he works alot, keeps to himself, family, and a few close friends. So no one knows him in the club except of a few random Albanians that shake his hand lol, cuz they were scared of him in high school. Now, the guy is not educated, not well spoken nor really civilized. BUT he is 6'2'' 230 lbs, chubby but wears layers so he actually LOOKS kinda buff lol. Flawless, dominant relaxed body language, focused eyes, and after he comes in the club he just chills there drinkin his beer for 10-15 mins looking at the dance floor (tip that u can follow: he looks at the girls in order to get in the mood, the sexual state...whereas most guys look like they're about to be interrogated, he looks like a lion watching a field full of zebras. Again feels out the atmosphere, gets on that "state").
Then takes off his leather coat, and goes into action with a little smile, cuz otherwise he has a menacing presence. (hint: go happy into action). Looks for eye contact, certain look, body language (aka looks for signs of “choosing” from females, and only approaches those ones that he knows at least might be choosing). Don’t bother with 3 chicks dancing with eachother – its useless. So if he perceives that the female is choosing, he will do one of the following: a) initiate kino right away, grab her arm, waist, etc b) say something simple/funny to her with a smile c) do an ass to ass grid thing lol – kinda bumping your ass on the girls ass, and works surprisingly well for him and looks hilarious. Now, he often gets rejected (duhh EVERY1 does), but every time a chick rejects HIM, I can tell by her body language that she is very polite about it, as if to say “thanks so much but I can’t”, like ive almost never seen a girl brush him off like a chump – one time that happened he SNAPPED at the girl, almost about to hit her.
When she accepts to dance, it’s a remarkable sight lol, because he just oozes testosterone and sexuality, basically has his way with her on the dance floor. A LOT of touching, sensuality, right body language, and facial expressions – like something primal. Im saying this because ive seen it work, and ive learned from observing him, that my game improved as well, its all about that sexuality in the club. Like let it ALL OUT, and be extremely dominant when with the chick, like she is your personal sex toy. Last time a girl who had a BOYFRIEND, both the girl and her bf are like 6 years older than us… dropped to her knees and started to bite his dyck. Apparently he saw this infamous player of Worcester, call him Alex – and even alex’s jaw dropped at what he was seeing.
Important take home message: in clubs, sexuality (gunwitch explains it well) is KEY. I know this from observing AND experiencing.
P.S.
Disclaimers: 1) I’m giving my friends example on this website because HE never would – the dude ummmm how should I say it – does not know how to write. 2) Don’t dress like crap to the club!, because one time we went out he put on some plain, old, greenish-blue t-shirt. I’m like bro u look like ur in ur backyard, not a club… well he got rejected about 10 times in a row, and then made out with a fat chick who refused to give him head. LOL. **** happens, no one’s perfect.
(im serious)Hope this helps, ...no fvck it - it WILL help if you (u know who u are) stop being your nerd-selves, stop arguing, and actually listen and understand.
Now I dont wanna make no confusion, I'm no certified mack, but I'm someone who is working on himself and making progress. Neither am i claiming to be an expert at clubbing, someone who been there 100's of times. However I have been to differnt clubs in MA and RI,
But most times i went to club Rehab (Hip Hop, then Techno, 18+) in Worcester, very diverse, has all kinds of races of people, as well as more/better girls. Im Russian, and some girls feel me, some don't... when im "in the zone", or in that sexual state, I most likely do well, and many girls with get freaky wit me.
Now heres some trends i noticed that I can tell you about, regarding other guys:
-majority of guys in the club, regardless of race look somewhat awkward/uncomfortable. Even though they may have the right appearance (well-dressed, muscular, etc)... Stand around and do nothing.
-successful are some tall, skinny white guys, who seem to know the chicks already/have some social proof
-also some shorter guys who look more tan, perhaps puertorican, mediterranean, jewish, Brazillian, Indian watever. Not big dudes, and have this doochebaggy appearance with spikey hair, piercings, etc... kind of weird looking ones. They seem to do well.
-Guys who are more "Alpha looking", jacked, masculine etc. seem to NOT have as much success.
-muscles don't matter in the club, as long as your body doesnt carry 50+ lbs of xtra fat, you're fine.
-Black people mostly stand around hoping some girl approaches them, so not that good either.
.......
-The best "club-goer" i know is my friend, who has basically no social proof (walk into the club UNKNOWN) cuz he works alot, keeps to himself, family, and a few close friends. So no one knows him in the club except of a few random Albanians that shake his hand lol, cuz they were scared of him in high school. Now, the guy is not educated, not well spoken nor really civilized. BUT he is 6'2'' 230 lbs, chubby but wears layers so he actually LOOKS kinda buff lol. Flawless, dominant relaxed body language, focused eyes, and after he comes in the club he just chills there drinkin his beer for 10-15 mins looking at the dance floor (tip that u can follow: he looks at the girls in order to get in the mood, the sexual state...whereas most guys look like they're about to be interrogated, he looks like a lion watching a field full of zebras. Again feels out the atmosphere, gets on that "state").
Then takes off his leather coat, and goes into action with a little smile, cuz otherwise he has a menacing presence. (hint: go happy into action). Looks for eye contact, certain look, body language (aka looks for signs of “choosing” from females, and only approaches those ones that he knows at least might be choosing). Don’t bother with 3 chicks dancing with eachother – its useless. So if he perceives that the female is choosing, he will do one of the following: a) initiate kino right away, grab her arm, waist, etc b) say something simple/funny to her with a smile c) do an ass to ass grid thing lol – kinda bumping your ass on the girls ass, and works surprisingly well for him and looks hilarious. Now, he often gets rejected (duhh EVERY1 does), but every time a chick rejects HIM, I can tell by her body language that she is very polite about it, as if to say “thanks so much but I can’t”, like ive almost never seen a girl brush him off like a chump – one time that happened he SNAPPED at the girl, almost about to hit her.
When she accepts to dance, it’s a remarkable sight lol, because he just oozes testosterone and sexuality, basically has his way with her on the dance floor. A LOT of touching, sensuality, right body language, and facial expressions – like something primal. Im saying this because ive seen it work, and ive learned from observing him, that my game improved as well, its all about that sexuality in the club. Like let it ALL OUT, and be extremely dominant when with the chick, like she is your personal sex toy. Last time a girl who had a BOYFRIEND, both the girl and her bf are like 6 years older than us… dropped to her knees and started to bite his dyck. Apparently he saw this infamous player of Worcester, call him Alex – and even alex’s jaw dropped at what he was seeing.
Important take home message: in clubs, sexuality (gunwitch explains it well) is KEY. I know this from observing AND experiencing.
P.S.
Disclaimers: 1) I’m giving my friends example on this website because HE never would – the dude ummmm how should I say it – does not know how to write. 2) Don’t dress like crap to the club!, because one time we went out he put on some plain, old, greenish-blue t-shirt. I’m like bro u look like ur in ur backyard, not a club… well he got rejected about 10 times in a row, and then made out with a fat chick who refused to give him head. LOL. **** happens, no one’s perfect.
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