"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My Thermonuclear method to develop instant rapport

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The "Tips" forum is dead and if I posted this there it would barely be seen, so it's got to go here.

I thought of and field-tested a very effective way to develop literally instant rapport with women.

So you're talking with her, doing a little push/pull. At pull time, she says something you agree with. You say:

"Ahhh...You see? You and I are both cut from the same cloth".

This instantly melds you together with her in her mind. It is totally visual to her. She relates deeply with cloth since she's all about clothing, and like most women she has at least done some sewing and making things with cloth, as all little girls will.

The "You see?" part causes her to answer yes subconsciously.

This is a powerful technique and I've been using it very successfully.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nice dude, going to remember that. +rep for joo.
 

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thank you sir, this is pretty neat :)
 

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Good tip.

And when you disagree try this:

"You are hurting your chances."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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