"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My technique for a first date

nickcaeb

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When I was in college and right after college, when I’d meet a girl at a party or somewhere else and it looked like we are attracted to each other, I would ask her out, she’d say yes. I would wait approximately two weeks before calling her and then ask her out for that week or the following weekend. This would cause the girl to wonder if I really liked her or if I was just playing around, etc.

We would go out, have a good time, maybe giver her a good night kiss, but I wouldn’t try anything else. Ask to see her again. But I would wait another two weeks to call her for another date.

So, the second date is actually about six weeks after I initially met the girl. So now she’s really woindering what’s going on, do I really like her or maybe I’m just not into sex with her. But, the second date, I swear, is the date I always had sex with the girl. She probably was so relieved that I liked her.

Now, the only draw back to this is that the girl may have other guys calling her up, so you run the risk of not makiing it to the second date. But you have to pick girls you are not real flirty and who seem realy interested in you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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