"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My technique for a first date

nickcaeb

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When I was in college and right after college, when I’d meet a girl at a party or somewhere else and it looked like we are attracted to each other, I would ask her out, she’d say yes. I would wait approximately two weeks before calling her and then ask her out for that week or the following weekend. This would cause the girl to wonder if I really liked her or if I was just playing around, etc.

We would go out, have a good time, maybe giver her a good night kiss, but I wouldn’t try anything else. Ask to see her again. But I would wait another two weeks to call her for another date.

So, the second date is actually about six weeks after I initially met the girl. So now she’s really woindering what’s going on, do I really like her or maybe I’m just not into sex with her. But, the second date, I swear, is the date I always had sex with the girl. She probably was so relieved that I liked her.

Now, the only draw back to this is that the girl may have other guys calling her up, so you run the risk of not makiing it to the second date. But you have to pick girls you are not real flirty and who seem realy interested in you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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