"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tseluca
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the majority of guys on here just want to validate their insecure masculinity by getting laid.
And Regan, better yet, I know a well hung black gay man who would love to get his hands on you for an hour or so
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NewMan
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Easy girls require less work, less maintenance and less $'s. Why go to the trouble when you can go fvck some piece of a## you've just meet at a club or bar? Less work. Less games. Less time.The other thing I like is when guys say I only would nail you because you are easy....Hmmmmm.....is that so....you need to stoop to a slut in order to get laid? Arent you DJ skills up to par yet? Is your self esteem that low?
Personally, if I meet a girl and she wants to fvck, I'm going to fvck her - end of story. I'm not going to marry her - just fvck her.
I want to fvck - I think "Land" and "Ladylike" are 2 words that do not go together.or cant you land a more "ladylike" women?
You are way, way, way off base.See the reason guys don't want a girl who is experienced is because he has a fragile ego. Yes, men try to hide it by saying they want a respectable woman and by calling her sluts, but the truth is he is "worried" about how he compares to the others she has been with
What you attribute to social phobia's is actually attributed to genetics.
Kind of the same way if I nail 12 guys I am a sluuuut and a guy that nails 12 girls is a stud.
genetically there are two many risk's for males to be with promiscuous women. Questions of whether the child is actually the man's come up. Then a guy could very well be looking after another males kid. Man's goal his genetics tell him to reproduce and to get as much of his genetic material into the world as possible (i.e. fvck as many women as he can) - the way men do that is the opposite of women. Men fvck and inpregnante women - as many as possible - whilst women (who know the child growing inside of them is their own) - have very little to gain (genetically) by fvcking around. Questions about who the father is - who will provide and take care of her and the child etc.
In this modern day, with birth control and DNA testing - things have changed somewhat - but the sitma still stands.
tseluca
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Most of you guys call girls sluts and *****es and say they don't know what they want...... well you get what you wish for.....
You come on her looking for tricks and asking for advice how to quickly get lots of women in bed
I mean really all you guys are doing is practicing how to pick up bmbos, I mean all you want to do is waltz into a club drop a few neg hits and then expect her to take her pants off.......well guess what that **** works .............on bimbos......
So how the hell do you expect to meet worthy women if you do things to attract AFC women?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
tseluca
Don Juan
Let's knock up as many womaen as possible
Where did you hear that evolution 101.....isn't restraint and critical thinking what seperates you from animals, or are you less evolved part of the male gender.
Who cares if the man knows if it is his baby or not, I mean really, if he is out there just knocking up chicks, not looking back, what does he care.
Let nature sort it out.
I want to breed with the best, so if your sperm dont cut it and the next guys does, guess what survival of the fittest I will bear his children.
And your pathetic genetics that were unable to be transfered by your weak sperm will die off
tseluca
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tseluca
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Just guessing that on your hatred toward women
keep telling yourself that lie. you got shelf life missy and i think you are about to expire like same day dated milk.Originally posted by tseluca
I have many men that love me
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheInfamousCBear
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Alot of guys dont screen these broads...They only care about how they look and they dont weigh in anything else until its too late...Then they get mad when the girl fukks them over and say that all girls aint sh1t when they should of screened the girl first...Women do the same thing, so it comes down to the people who screen and the ones who dont...If I dont feel comfortable about something in a girl Im not even gonna bother with her at all, Im too old for drama and Ive seen enough at my young age, lol...Originally posted by tseluca
So how the hell do you expect to meet worthy women if you do things to attract AFC women?
Originally posted by tseluca
I think many of you have repressed homosexuality issues
Just guessing that on your hatred toward women
you on the other hand are desperate.
no man will ever love you because
you have no personality
you have no charm
you have no self-esteem
you only come here for the attention
tseluca
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Aerospace
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Trish, dear, I can understand you. You have all my compassion. And I'm serious here, not sarcasm is involved.Originally posted by tseluca
I have many men that love me
But, at the end, we just want to be loved. Everyone among us is looking for the same thing, men and women. It's not so difficult to be loved by someone else, but learning to love us for what we are, to appreciate our little successes and don't be mad at our mediocrity is so difficult...
Women are not so shallow, insecure or predictable as we portray them here. But all this stuff helps us in gaining also the most little shard of confidence, giving us a chance to not feel a failure the next time a good-looking girl will refuse our attentions just because we're not beautiful.
This is a shallow, frenetic world. There is a chance to be happy, by the way, and it is forging a 'modus vivendi' that is able to protect us like an intellectual cocoon. When a lie is told many times for a very long period, it becomes reality.
Yes, I can undestand how you feel. Maybe more than anyone here, and that's why I won't never bash you.
no, she is deadOriginally posted by tseluca
Kumar....you must be mistaking me for your mother
i am sure it is you.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
tseluca
Don Juan
Come on, let me see what an Adonis you are baby.
Just email me one, I will send you one of me
are you nuts!Originally posted by tseluca
Care to do a pic swap Kumar?
Come on, let me see what an Adonis you are baby.
Just email me one, I will send you one of me
i dont want your ugly fat ass near my pc
oh the horror, the inhumanity
my pc couldnt stand it, neither could i
tseluca
Don Juan
:crackup:Originally posted by tseluca
Like I figured, another insecure AFC that is all talk
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tseluca
Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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