"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My Take On Sunshine Girls ..

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My former oneitis with whom i landed up in the buddy zone is a sunshine girl, when i just newly entered the RAFC phase I got a lot of signals from her but they amounted to nothing in the end.

This girl is a real cutie & she sabotages her own relationships by telling guys who she likes that shes not interested only so they can get more needy, an AW symptom there :eek: & then broods over it later when things dont work.

She adheres to a strict moral code of having never ever kissed a guy & calls herself 'virgin mary', Im from India & things are relatively conservative here.

So sunshine girls might see doing things like making out & having sex as a BIG SIN, which is why they dont do it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Heh, the F is common so it is "Sage of a Fallen Age"
 
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Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
This girl is a real cutie & she sabotages her own relationships by telling guys who she likes that shes not interested only so they can get more needy, an AW symptom there :eek: & then broods over it later when things dont work.

She adheres to a strict moral code of having never ever kissed a guy & calls herself 'virgin mary', Im from India & things are relatively conservative here.

So sunshine girls might see doing things like making out & having sex as a BIG SIN, which is why they dont do it.
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Hombre, how could she be an "Attention Wh@re" if she is a virgin and refuses to have a less than serious relationship with any guy that asks her?? She sounds like she has high standards and men who have a "DJ" Player attitude don't usually get these women so they get upset because she refuses to play the game!

Not every woman you like is going to like you - not a big issue - move on to someone who wants your company!!
 
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Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
My former oneitis with whom i landed up in the buddy zone is a sunshine girl, when i just newly entered the RAFC phase I got a lot of signals from her but they amounted to nothing in the end.

This girl is a real cutie & she sabotages her own relationships by telling guys who she likes that shes not interested only so they can get more needy, an AW symptom there :eek: & then broods over it later when things dont work.

She adheres to a strict moral code of having never ever kissed a guy & calls herself 'virgin mary', Im from India & things are relatively conservative here.

So sunshine girls might see doing things like making out & having sex as a BIG SIN, which is why they dont do it.
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Wow, that's crazy, I was just involved with a girl that did the EXACT same thing, and she's indian too. Could this be the same girl? Wow. She doesn't seem like an AW though, but who the heck knows.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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yup, YUP!!...

I'm so very proud of you PuertoRican Lover!

You hit the bullseye w/ that comment!

It's so nice to see a guy on this 'board that FINALLY understands women! I've been tryin' to find a good way to put this to y'all (well at least when I had the time to LOL), but you did it! Thanks Buddy!

Yup, not all women are "attention...whatchamacallits...", it gets sickening seeing this illogical fallacy posted all over this 'board...

LITERALLY -- when guy sees girls not interested in him (maybe she's just FRIENDLY w/ everyone -- tryin' to maintain a positive life from her already stressful existence -- and was NEVER interested in the in the guy in the first place...HEY NOW! LOL)... You can almost ALWAYS expect to see plastered on this 'board right after: ah, she's just some "attention...'ho...yadda yadda..."

It's just very refreshing to see a poster who actually attempts to come up with a LOGICAL conlcusion to the situation. LOL

Oh, and this applies to a much broader scale of women than just "Sunshine Girls"...Hopefully all guys will realize one day...

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:rolleyes:

I did say 'former' oneitis & shes an AW because she uses guys to inflate her ego by getting them to be needy & doesnt even want an LTR.

btw i believe no girl is worth the time once she LJBFs
 
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Originally posted by SageOFAllenAge
:rolleyes:

I did say 'former' oneitis & shes an AW because she uses guys to inflate her ego by getting them to be needy & doesnt even want an LTR.

btw i believe no girl is worth the time once she LJBFs
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My Indian compadre, every girl eventually wants a LTR they just want it with the 'right' guy of her choosing. More girls need to be like this girl and start 'qualifying' the men they choose to keep company with.

Woman don't force guys to approach them nor do they 'make' men needy. It is only the 'weak' men who become needy of one girl who doesn't want him!

Only ask a girl out once and see what she says - if she says "absolutely not" then leave her alone!! If she says" maybe" then ask one more time and that is all, and then leave her presesence and do not become friends with her!!! Give her no attention!!!


I think "Sunshine" girl means something different than what you think - isn't this a girl who sticks around a man when everything is going good but leaves when things go bad???
 
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I've always understood a "Sunshine Girl" to be one with a bright, bubbly, cheerful personality. She is friendly to everyone and gives guys a false impression of intrest. The perky, sales clerk type.

:Hi! I'm Christy!:D Can I help you find anything today?:D No? Well if you do just let me know!":D





You know...the ones you just want to smack...:rolleyes:
 
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Nothing wrong with being bubbly, but a 'sunshine girl' is one who is bright and bubbly on the surface, but a ***** underneath.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by WaterTiger
I've always understood a "Sunshine Girl" to be one with a bright, bubbly, cheerful personality. She is friendly to everyone and gives guys a false impression of intrest. The perky, sales clerk type.

:Hi! I'm Christy!:D Can I help you find anything today?:D No? Well if you do just let me know!":D

You know...the ones you just want to smack...:rolleyes:
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Stupid me, I thought he was talking of one of those women that pose in the Sun newspaper! Duh.....


At any rate, the paradox of the attention hor is that we, as wimpy AFC men, have created this creature.

Women that we call attention wh*res are this way because they constantly have a drove of AFC men following them around. Kissing their arse, buying them drinks and generally putting them on a pedastal. It's only human nature that a woman would turn into this abomination of a creature.

I suppose that's why some of them respond so well to a man that doesn't treat her like royalty, because a man that does not do this, for the attention wh*re, is a rare commodity.

Granted, there are still those certain Attention wh*res that are just that and are so warped and twisted that they are mentally f*cked up.
 
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Originally posted by WaterTiger
I've always understood a "Sunshine Girl" to be one with a bright, bubbly, cheerful personality. She is friendly to everyone and gives guys a false impression of intrest. The perky, sales clerk type.

:Hi! I'm Christy!:D Can I help you find anything today?:D No? Well if you do just let me know!":D





You know...the ones you just want to smack...:rolleyes:
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BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAAA



Girls in the Sun? Isn't that jsut in Canada? ... They ARE called sunshine girls though.
 
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