"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My summary of this week.

Nino-Tk

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Holla, Just thought I should write down what I did this week.Okay so my goal of not being on sosuave 24/7 trying to find the next magic bullet is working, I think I know enough already the basics.On monday there is this chick I hit on at school, we had a good conversation and I asked her out but she told me she had a guy so yeah too bad.Ever since i've been on my path of Don juanism, I find it easier to play the game in my hood than at school, thing is they've always known me as that quiet,shy and lay low kinda guy.Now that im starting to chang alil, its like they get pissed when I start speaking up but i know im on the right path.On Tuesday I tried going solo at school cause my hommies are now potheads,I regret introducing em to weed cause I don't smoke now and the sarge didn't go well,everytime I saw a target, theories,methods and techniques clouded my head! I really got to stop reading so much philosophy.Wednesday and Thursday sucked! Yesterday, some crazy funny guy at school dared to approach a 8.0 with a small body and really huge tits. And I surprised myself by going to her, afterall I normally Dj out of school and on chicks my age or younger, she was definately older.I got there and just said Hi, we were in the hall so everyone was looking.It went well and I got her numbers! Im gonna call her after I'm done typing this. Later on that day, i approached two girls at school, they were nice but were in a hurry so I didnt get much other than their names.Today my hommie came and collected me to go sarge in another hood,I carried a knife because that hood is known for being notorious.We approached 3 groups today.And what I learned is this, never take a wingman thats physically more attractive than you.Im not ugly,that I know but there some girls screamed 'Chris brown'! When they saw him.He is lighter than me and a tad bit taller.When conversing with the group i had to really crack a joke to get a bit of attention lol!, he would just stand there and they would melt.Anyway I got a number so its not that bad.I guess now I really gotta work on DJing at school and I want to get confidence on my own instead of taking it from this website everytime I feel down.Aidos bro's I'll be back to post what happens next week! Hope its good!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Very nice man. I had a good first week as well. After a few days of reading SS I started kino then escalating. I came up with a creative way to get a girl to think about me. Today, I got a number from a chick I just met(this was a little awkward, but I really don't give a ****. You just need to dive in, be a man, and practice).

Stay mackin' and work on improving your game!
 

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Man, props to you for actually taking resposibility for your own life!
Try making a journal here, instead of making new threads. Also, try not to create walls of text, they are hard to read. Make paragraphs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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MrP said:
What's the creative way to get her to think about you? I'm curious now. :trouble:
For this to work it can't be a cold pick up. This girl needs to go to regular spot at sometime during the day and she need to have your contact info. Find something unusual that both of you are familiar with and place it where she normally is.

Example:
I see some chick parking her car at the same place at her work. I go to her work spit some game. While inquiring about her interests and stuff she brought up the fact that she used to ride horses. We exchanged #s then I split. The next day I put a little plastic horse on her car. After work she calls.

Her: Hey twitch, I found a plastic horse on my car. That wasn't your doing was it?

Me: Wow, you are calling to talk to me about a plastic horse you found on your car. You must have soooo much going on in your life(C+F, neg hit). Since you are so busy come meet me at X this weekend.

Her: Haha! Okay.

Me: Alright, cya.

It was very situational, and it just came to me. I'm starting to get the DJ mindset.
 

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Nino-Tk said:
Okay guys I have decided, after a really long time of thinking...Im gonna start my journal,yeah thats right I am doing it! Thanks Norwegian Dj, you came up with a good plan bra.
AWESOME!
 
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