"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My Success

MG69

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I was posted to another country working on a project in Jan.

Started reading this forum in Feb
i have posted these happenings in the discussion forum, and i am just doing a summary here for the success stories

Met this gal in thru icq and started practising my DJ skills on her. The first date i had lots of kino and she was practically massaging me.
Call her a few days later and she was at my apartment and made out...

After that she started to buy daily stuffs for me as i use more DJ stuffs on her during calls and when we met.

Things got a little out of hand and she was acting like a total AFC after a while...
it got on my nerves and i NEXTed her...

i met another gal (LTR material) about the same time and i also practised my DJ skills like not being desperate, ****y+funny, giving her neghits etc.....

i was attracted and felt that she was too.
She came to my apartment and made mango pudding for me, cooked a dinner for me(we bought the food together), bought takeaways to eat in my apartment.....

Then last sunday she was at my house watching tv till 2 am ...

it was late and she say she would like to stay the nite....
of coz i agreed.... we shared the same bed and i asked her directly if she was interested in me....
she mumbled yes and i did the KISS

now this gal is my gf.....

all in all i have spent abt 2 months practising the DJ skills and this is the little success i got.
i will continue to practise to become a tru DJ as i believe u will lose it if u dun use it
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HBK

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thats cool, i like the way u told her "if she was interested" pretty smooth!

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"Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer" ~ Godfather part II

[This message has been edited by HBK (edited 03-27-2002).]
 

MG69

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well...
she is a typical shy asian type of gal
 
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