Technical1
Senior Don Juan
whats up
I havent posted much lately on here but just wanted to write a thread about the success I've been having. I basically used SoSuave techniques and philosophy, combined with some Real Social Dynamics techniques and philosophy, and just did a ton of approaches and field work. I discovered this site 10 months ago in the depths, absolute DEPTHS, of chumpdom.
Basically, I went from a guy who had no control over his dating life and couldnt get dates with attractive women, to a guy who can get dates and can close consistently off approaches. This process took about 6 months of field work and is by no means done, in fact I dont think its even properly begun. But the success is phenomenal. Im not going to quantify how many lays I have because I think if you are mature you will realize that its not all about lays, and that kind of thinking is another dead end that guys get stuck in. But things are definitely working out.
I went from nothing, not being able to "do anything" and hoping women would fall out of the sky to date me, to a guy who can get dates no problem. Ive dated 7 different women in the last 2 months, a couple more I chose not to date for different reasons. Ive approached 264 women/groups in the last six months. Amazingly, my standards for women keep getting higher as I get more experience. The pressure I put on women has gone down. The fun I have with this stuff has gone through the roof. Thats the point of it all anyway. As Im sure many of you will discover if you havent already.
Weird sh1t happens to me like today a phone call with a random woman at the post office turns into a flirt session where she tells me all about herself, giving me her info without me asking for it. In the course of writing this thread a girl that I approached two days ago, approached me and involved me in a 10 minute discussion of how the brain works (for a college project). Basically, the more you seduce, the more seductive you become. Your personality can become very seductive very fast. Ive recently had a problem with a girl falling head over heels for me, which is obviously a sort of luxury problem. You will develop a lot of unconscious attributes which cannot be named or articulated easily but which draw people towards you. It used to make me mad to read about the cool guys on here talking about their "aura" but the aura is kind of real in some ways. :rock: (what the hell does that emoticon symbolize?)
Basically the number of approaches you do will effect how fast you get better. Theres a little bit beyond that but not much. Seduction appears more complicated than it is especially with all the acronyms and sh1t. Creating a real connection with the women based on similarities of character and mutual interest or shared viewpoint, is king. Also lying to women and being insincere with them is a dead-end, absolute dead end. I found being 90% honest or even 98% honest is really good. Disrespect and game playing is a dead-end, at least in the "niche market" where I operate. The only thing you really need to do differently from other guys is to approach many, pursue high-IL, and consistently and persistantly escalate sexually.
Beyond that there is a labrynth of theory which you can get lost in which I'm not sure will even help you. Also a lot of people on these boards are suffering from a completely different problem called internet addiction, which causes them to try and portray personalities and build a social hierarchy online while discussing ideas to death. The internet is a death trap just like television. Having internet at home will result in a massive loss of authentic life over time whether you realize it or not. Not getting home internet is my biggest tip. Just the irresponsible anti-social anonymity of the internet alone is a barrier to game development, which is about "becoming more real".
I know all this has been said a thousand times before, but maybe if you hear it from the mouth of somebody who was eating loser-cake just 10 months ago, it might ring even truer. Special thanks to everybody at SoSuave: especially Pook, Senior Fingers, and all the guys who wrote on the board 2001-2008. :flowers: Romanticizing internet camaraderie is mad gay but I will always be nostalgic for this board as it set in motion the only part of my life since childhood where I have been truly happy and fulfilled. Human beings represent tremendous value and more contact with them means a more meaningful life for you. Huge spiritual benefits to being social.
keep it real,
Tech
I havent posted much lately on here but just wanted to write a thread about the success I've been having. I basically used SoSuave techniques and philosophy, combined with some Real Social Dynamics techniques and philosophy, and just did a ton of approaches and field work. I discovered this site 10 months ago in the depths, absolute DEPTHS, of chumpdom.
Basically, I went from a guy who had no control over his dating life and couldnt get dates with attractive women, to a guy who can get dates and can close consistently off approaches. This process took about 6 months of field work and is by no means done, in fact I dont think its even properly begun. But the success is phenomenal. Im not going to quantify how many lays I have because I think if you are mature you will realize that its not all about lays, and that kind of thinking is another dead end that guys get stuck in. But things are definitely working out.
I went from nothing, not being able to "do anything" and hoping women would fall out of the sky to date me, to a guy who can get dates no problem. Ive dated 7 different women in the last 2 months, a couple more I chose not to date for different reasons. Ive approached 264 women/groups in the last six months. Amazingly, my standards for women keep getting higher as I get more experience. The pressure I put on women has gone down. The fun I have with this stuff has gone through the roof. Thats the point of it all anyway. As Im sure many of you will discover if you havent already.
Weird sh1t happens to me like today a phone call with a random woman at the post office turns into a flirt session where she tells me all about herself, giving me her info without me asking for it. In the course of writing this thread a girl that I approached two days ago, approached me and involved me in a 10 minute discussion of how the brain works (for a college project). Basically, the more you seduce, the more seductive you become. Your personality can become very seductive very fast. Ive recently had a problem with a girl falling head over heels for me, which is obviously a sort of luxury problem. You will develop a lot of unconscious attributes which cannot be named or articulated easily but which draw people towards you. It used to make me mad to read about the cool guys on here talking about their "aura" but the aura is kind of real in some ways. :rock: (what the hell does that emoticon symbolize?)
Basically the number of approaches you do will effect how fast you get better. Theres a little bit beyond that but not much. Seduction appears more complicated than it is especially with all the acronyms and sh1t. Creating a real connection with the women based on similarities of character and mutual interest or shared viewpoint, is king. Also lying to women and being insincere with them is a dead-end, absolute dead end. I found being 90% honest or even 98% honest is really good. Disrespect and game playing is a dead-end, at least in the "niche market" where I operate. The only thing you really need to do differently from other guys is to approach many, pursue high-IL, and consistently and persistantly escalate sexually.
Beyond that there is a labrynth of theory which you can get lost in which I'm not sure will even help you. Also a lot of people on these boards are suffering from a completely different problem called internet addiction, which causes them to try and portray personalities and build a social hierarchy online while discussing ideas to death. The internet is a death trap just like television. Having internet at home will result in a massive loss of authentic life over time whether you realize it or not. Not getting home internet is my biggest tip. Just the irresponsible anti-social anonymity of the internet alone is a barrier to game development, which is about "becoming more real".
I know all this has been said a thousand times before, but maybe if you hear it from the mouth of somebody who was eating loser-cake just 10 months ago, it might ring even truer. Special thanks to everybody at SoSuave: especially Pook, Senior Fingers, and all the guys who wrote on the board 2001-2008. :flowers: Romanticizing internet camaraderie is mad gay but I will always be nostalgic for this board as it set in motion the only part of my life since childhood where I have been truly happy and fulfilled. Human beings represent tremendous value and more contact with them means a more meaningful life for you. Huge spiritual benefits to being social.
keep it real,
Tech