"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My stupid-ass "olympic lift + 20-rep squat" routine that gained me 20 lbs in 5 weeks

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Yeah, so I did this routine in late 2003 at age 18 and somehow kept it up for 5-6 weeks before my CNS committed suicide. In the process I went from 212 to 232 lbs, while actually shrinking my waist size by 1/2 an inch. Seems like a jackass routine looking back, but hell if it didn't somehow work.

AVERAGE WORKOUT:

1-2x5 BARBELL BENCH PRESS
1-2x3 CHIN-UPS (on a good day)
5x5 POWER CLEANS
5x6 OLYMPIC JERKS (switching which foot goes forward each time - left, right, left, right, left, right)
3x5 BACK SQUATS (heavier weight)
1x20 BACK SQUATS (20-rep max)
1x20 DUMBBELL PULLOVERS (not for heavy weight, just for "opening up the chest" or whatever)

(power cleans and jerks were alternated - IE clean set, jerk set, clean set, jerk set etc)

FREQUENCY: 3 workouts every 2 weeks (Monday, Friday, Wednesday, Monday, Friday, Wednesday)

Sometimes threw other stuff in there, like a set or two of snatches or deadlifts. The goal was to add weight + reps to the olympic lifts, and to up the 20-rep squat weight by 5 pounds per workout.

I ate like a freakin horse, and in the process, gained all that muscleweight. When I took a week off to recover the CNS, then came back, my maxes had gone up in almost everything, from squats to bench to chins to kettlebell shoulder presses.

And the best part is, it was just me trying to combine olympic lifts (the lifts that got me started in lifting, thanks to having Mike Burgener as my high-school lifting coach) with 20-rep squats and thus coming up with my own bastardized routine. The frequency was unplanned, it just happened because I couldn't do it 3 days per week due to the stuff I added to the original 20-rep squat plan and because I annihilated my collarbones and shoulders with bruises.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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