"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
Check out Tony Robbins Personal Power. This success program rreally works with all areas of your life. I think you could use it and it does cost a lot but its worth every penny and then some because you cant put a price on happyness
anyway goodluck man
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
by Agent47
If she does not bring it up. YOU will. Break it off with her. Just tell her you dont want this. If she says that to you. You agree.
Now this is what you do:
go to your moms. My brother moved back in at 28 and didnt move out til 32 so he could get on his feet (he flunked out of college). Its not that bad man. seriously you need to get out of there man. RIGHT NOW. Staying near her will implement the same feelings you had with her and you wont be able to rid yoru AFCness and oneitis. When she starts dating other guys how will you handle it???
My older brother's best friend was in the exact same situation. He had been laid off and his GF broke it off with him. he decided to stay and live with her. It was terrible. He was a rollercoaster of emoitons and started drinking heavely. He became overweight and even though they were separated.........they still argued! all the freaking time. It was like they were still togethor but without the sex. So he finally decided after year to get the hell out of there. Hegot a job working at a liqour store and moved out. and you know what? not even 6 months later he found another woman. And she was happier and better then the last one . She did not have the same ups and down like the other one. So he worked at the liquor store for a while and then he got a better job working for a cable company. Well they kept going and stayed togethor and after year they got their own place.
That was a couple years ago and in the summer they are getting married.
It shows how there could be THE ONE girl for you around the corner. THis girl is clearly not it.
MOVE IN WITH YORU PARENTS. You are alreday being humiliated in front of this girl constantly. moving in with your mom is a step up. Hey......at least she wont attack your man hood. And she will support you. Your not getting any support from this one......your being used as support for her stupid childish games.
GET OUT OF THERE. it wont take long to get back on your feet + maby you could go back to school living with your mom. maby become a plumber? electrician? that does not take 2 long. My brother after flunking out of college is becoming an electrician.
Listen man, you accuse this ***** thats owning you of being addicted to unhappiness. If you weren't addicted to unhappiness you would've left this girl a long time ago!
Drop the used baggage and move on. She has herpes forchissakes!!! HERPES! Are you DAFT?
I do not sympathize with you one bit. So, here's what you do to end this: GIVE HER AN ANGRY PIRATE! What's an angry pirate you ask?
Ok, get her to give you head. When you're about to ***, pull it out of her mouth and shoot her in the eye. Then kick her in the shins as hard as you can. Then run away. Angry pirate!
PuertoRican_Lover
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You deserve every bad thing that comes your way - it sickened me to read your story and see that you are such a pvssy and major chump - the biggest chump pvssy I've encountered on this site!!!! You deserve death so as to save the integrity of all men - you are a poor example of a man - in fact, you are not even a man!!!!!!!!!!!!Originally posted by Agent47
Every time she has cheated she wants to leave me but I talk to her and she stays.