"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My Story Of My Crush.. NEED ADVICE (URGENT)

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Well 1st Hello to this great community.. I'm new here and looking for tough advice... Hoping to get some good answers from here.. So here it goes >> I have a crush in my school and i've
talked with her much through text and
phone... I'm really confused with the
situation which is now standing infront
of me.. I've proposed her 2 weeks ago through text
and she replied "lets see what happens"
; the most awkward feeling of
getting this type of answer instead of
"no" or "yes"... One day we both were
travelling through same bus and one of
her guy-friend came and talked with
her.. I stopped talking to her and when
we all reached home she text me and said
"Sorry, I Talked with him... I
didn't like to talk but what to do, he
came up itself.. ".. That scene is
over...... Okay now lets see this thing
; Yesterday, I called her to come with
me outside to shop, but she refused,
because she said that she was not
allowed.. Now we dont mesg. Because her
SMS Pack was over and i asked her does
she need SMS pack? She again said "No"..
its straight that she dont want me ;-( ,
again one day she told she was tottaly confused.. Maybe 3 weeks before her boyfriend left her and she told me all those things because she finds me as her closest friend among the whole school.. She told me that he was too demanded and she will never ever go back to his life again.. She told me that she don't want to be in any relationship untill and unless she finds out true love... I don't know what is going on in her mind..
She can't come out with me | She is sending me mixed signals | I proposed her, and she told lets see |
What actually is going on? One of my friend told me to cut of conversation and meeting for 1 week.. He told me that if she tries to contact you anyhow then she is attracted but if not then she's not.. So, community, is this going to work?
One more thing : One day i asked her what type of bf does she want, she replied
"Tall, cute , caring and lovable like me.." yes, she told LIKE ME.. And she again replied Your future girlfriend would be very lucky".. Oh man, i don't know whats going on and it seems like these days she lost interest in me because i keep messaging.. Help me.. If u need any info reply this post!
EDIT : Its been only 2 months since i started talking.. And she tells me i'm soo funny and she thinks what i say as a joke... Well, i think she thought my proposal as a joke becoz, i just told her thorough text message... ;( ...
UPDATE : She gave 2 miss c
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Your future girlfriend would be very lucky".. Oh man, i don't know whats going on and it seems like these days she lost interest in me because i keep messaging.. Help me.. If u need any info reply this post!
THANKS
 

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It's simple. She has zero interest and she's trying to get you out of her orbit.

When a girl is interested she will move mountains to be able to see you. Do you see this in her? Of course not. She kept you on as a GIRLFRIEND for a while and you've outlived your usefulness to her. She is doing all this subconsciousely, not on purpose.

Respect yourself and cut her off. She simply doesn't see you as a romantic interest. So what? There are plenty more fish in the sea. Cut bait and find more productive waters.
 

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It's over, let her go. There are 1,241,491,960 people in India, it should be easy to find another girl!
 

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I dont know, but i've started that trick toady.. In a actual way i'll be busy this whole week and i will not contact her..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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EDIT : Its been only 2 months since i started talking.. And she tells me i'm soo funny and she thinks what i say as a joke... Well, i think she thought my proposal as a joke becoz, i just told her thorough text message...
 

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Jimon30 said:
EDIT : Its been only 2 months since i started talking.. And she tells me i'm soo funny and she thinks what i say as a joke... Well, i think she thought my proposal as a joke becoz, i just told her thorough text message...
Move on. Its over.
 

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Relationships work differently in India. Those ****ty girls expect a "chase" so if you want her, don't give up on her, but don't act like a ***** either. Keep inviting her to do things you are already doing. She will eventually say yes or make excuses. If she says yes, enjoy and escalate. If she keeps making excuses, after 4th-5th go completely NC. She will come back you or better yet, you will be having fun with other girls!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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**UPDATE : So, she haven't seen me on school and i got 2 miss calls from her yesterday.
 
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