My story - Need help with the last step!

[European-DJ]

Hi Sosuave.

First of all thank you -and the DJ/PUA community.
Since i Joined ( 1 year ago - with different account) i have learned a lot about my self, and a lot about how to attract women.
- From 0-18 i have dated just abot 4-5 girls, slept with one - but theese numbers have tripled within the last 6 months!

I am very confident now, and feel MUCH better about my self. I also feel that i am - Not mastering - but very good at the first steps, in terms of seduction.

But i still have this problem, which is making me SICK... I CANNOT ESCALATE SEXUALLY!!

I have found out, that there are two reasons for this

1* I have NO confidence in bed, simply because i have not slept with so many women - ALMOST NO EXPERIENCE -, and well, lets just say that i am not confident with my body nor my equipment.

2* I am acting too much of a lady - I am more shy than anyone else in bed, and i KEEP cudling insted of just going for it. I Guees i need to man up (But i need some guidelines for this point)

- Honestly, i need some help with the sexual escalating part, since i am going nuts about it.. I simply do not know what to do when we hit the sheets, i am Confused..

 

[rocket87]

Do you go to the gym? Live a healthy, active lifestyle? If not, start today. Seriously, today. Get a gym membership. Start going at least 5 days a week. Meet with a trainer, start associating with physically fit, nutritionally-intelligent people. Talk to dudes at the gym. It's okay to do that. Guys at the gym make some of the best friends you could ever want (especially considering they're in the same game you are)

It sounds like you don't really want sex from these girls. If you wanted it you would do something about it, right?? I wanted a fast, sexy, and luxury german sports car, so I made bank for a couple years and bought one. It's now sitting in my driveway. This is easy stuff man. Start thinking more linear, just figure out the equation and solve it.

Google "Kino escalation ladder." It will solve your #2. #1 you're absolutely fvcked at this point because that's deep inner game sh!t and something needs to be done about it. Or you're just going to stay the same way forever. Girls have built-in confidence detectors. You can't fake it. It's impossible. You need to legitimately be confident with yourself, your ways, your c0ck, your body, everything in order for it to come off as genuine. This is assuming you want quality women.

Fix yourself ASAP. You're young as hell, you're lucky, very lucky, that you're doing this now. Congrats for that alone.. Now go out and do something about it. Go approach random guys. Make and hold eye contact with random people. Say hello with a full smile to at least 5 people today and see how they respond. It is okay to fake smiles as a friendly gesture.

Hope that helps? Good luck.

 

[Chickfight]

If your lack of confidence is strictly sex-related. Just remember, that crazy perverted guy you suppress when meeting girls? You get to let him out once you're in bed with them.
Relax and have fun, but let your instincts take over and be extremely dominating. Girls like aggressiveness in bed. Also, a lot of people have the misconception that girls are constantly judging your performance. Truth is, to most girls, it's not the end all if the sex itself was amazing. They just love the connected feeling they have with a person they're attracted to.

Although some girls do care a lot (eg. one night stands)

So don't worry about making her happy too much. The more experience you get, the better you'll get.