"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My Story… A Tale of Hope for Virgins Part 4 the finale

TheAsianLoverReturns

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The rest is history… I learned the game. I discovered a truth of life, having a mentor or a coach speeds up your learning curve a hundred fold. Imagine if I had to learn the game just by experience alone. It would have taken too long, with too many bumps along the road. Player Supreme really enjoys teaching and is not motivated solely by money. As he took the time to teach me valuable lessons, my game grew by leaps and bounds.

There are a lot of top players on zenmack. They helped me out in my lowest hour and their advice strengthened my knowledge of the game. I put 100% effort into the game. I discovered my best hunting areas. I learned it was foolish to date clients, and now that I had my own business, I definitely did not want to mix business with pleasure. Day game was difficult at best, the few coffee dates I was able to get did not turn into sex. At the clubs and bars, I was at a severe disadvantage because of my height. I could not compete with guys a half foot taller or more than me. My best place for getting women are online dating sites. In fact, my first lay after my ex girlfriend was from online game. Yes, she was a fat b*tch, but by f*cking her, I put the law of attraction in my favor. After her, better and better looking women came into my sphere.

My game was still at the novice level, I made a lot of rookie mistakes. My biggest mistake was not knowing when to escalate. Had I invited these women to my place, I would have f*cked a much larger percentage. Also, I was foolish because I escalated with women in public, I should have waited until they were inside my apartment. Another mistake I made was not knowing the importance of dress. On some of these coffee dates, I wore my work polos and I’m sure that was a turnoff to some women. I made sure to buy some nice threads.

Another lesson I learned was the importance of height. I had thought I was 5’7, and with 1 inch lifts, I listed my height at 5’8. I kept on going on date after date without even getting a kiss. Then I got my height measured at the doctor’s office and found out to my dismay that I was only 5’5. Amazing how 2 measly inches can make the difference between getting laid and jerking off at home… I have since purchased 3 inch lifts, and my date to f*ck ratio has gone up considerably.

I learned a lot about women. It’s sad that so many of them are materialistic predatory creatures. A lot of women never wanted to see me again after seeing my car. They turned their noses after finding out that I rent and do not own a house. Others snubbed me when I told them I was self employed and had no employees. I learned the truth about these women. I learned to lie, and well these women deserved it. My ex girlfriend even stalked me through my business website. I told her I wanted nothing to do with her. She got me back by turning our mutual friends against me. Typical borderline…

I learned to lie about my social status, it makes a big difference with these women. Girls are either hos or freaks, a good girl is just a nicer ho. I learned to love the freaks, as long as you’re an assh*le to them and have nice looks with a muscular body, you are golden.

I learned to stop being a cheapskate, I was so cheap, I wouldn’t even buy coffee. Now I know how to size a girl up over the phone, if I think she is a freak, then I will invite her straight to my place. If I think she is a ho, then I will take her out to dinner and either use a coupon or restaurant.com gift certificate. I love restaurant.com, you can get $25 gift certificates for $2. So actually, I’m only paying for myself. I love it! I make sure to pick a restaurant close to me, if she wants to meet halfway or by her, I won’t go. Then I invite her over to my place. I don’t play the waiting game, if she doesn’t give up the P*ssy by the 2nd date, at most the 3rd date, she’s gone.

I discovered that confidence and self esteem are built from raw experience. No amount of self-help books or affirmations will help you. Only persistence. The determination to keep on trying no matter how many women reject you. In time, my experience of f*cking a lot of women has created a powerful core of inner confidence. As you can see from my women page, I have dated 111 women, and have had sex with a third of them. And that number is growing…

Though the journey has been challenging and at times, filled with pain, I am glad that I have taken the path least traveled.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hey man, just curious about the height thing. You say you wear three inch lifts. What happens when she discovers your true height? Or do you just avoid activities that involve taking off your shoes - beach, bowling etc. So
what happens when you get her back home, or to her place and you take off your shoes, and she finds out you're wearing lifts. Dealbreaker?
 

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Dude I'm looking at your thread trying to get some hope for my situation and there just really isn't anything.

You basically say that you joined a paid forum and learned everything. No offense bro but it sounds like you are advertising.

Putting that aside, I strongly agree with you about "confidence and self esteem are built from raw experience." I know exactly why my confidence and self esteem sucks, I don't get any pussy. It's as simple as that. People keep telling me that I have to find it within myself first, bullshit.

I'm also curious about the lift thing. I'm a 5'6 white guy and I feel that my height is really hurting my game. What kind of lifts do you wear and what places do you use them at?
 

TheAsianLoverReturns

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spinaroonie said:
Hey man, just curious about the height thing. You say you wear three inch lifts. What happens when she discovers your true height? Or do you just avoid activities that involve taking off your shoes - beach, bowling etc. So
what happens when you get her back home, or to her place and you take off your shoes, and she finds out you're wearing lifts. Dealbreaker?
Hasn't happened yet. Women want a relationship and I only want sex, so they move on after a couple of f*cks.

I'm sure she would be turned off, as long as she finds out after you banged her, who cares...
 

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Maxtro said:
Dude I'm looking at your thread trying to get some hope for my situation and there just really isn't anything.

You basically say that you joined a paid forum and learned everything. No offense bro but it sounds like you are advertising.

Putting that aside, I strongly agree with you about "confidence and self esteem are built from raw experience." I know exactly why my confidence and self esteem sucks, I don't get any pussy. It's as simple as that. People keep telling me that I have to find it within myself first, bullshit.

I'm also curious about the lift thing. I'm a 5'6 white guy and I feel that my height is really hurting my game. What kind of lifts do you wear and what places do you use them at?
I understand where you're coming from, I don't make any money by talking about the forum. I'm just telling it like it is and giving a shout out to my coach.

If you were in a martial art and had a great sensei, wouldn't you tell everyone good things about your teacher? I know when I used to box, I told everyone about my boxing coach, 3 time super-heavyweight chicago golden glove champion, olympic trial finalist. I went from being a terrible boxer to a good boxer with his help.

As for the lifts, ignore the taller guys who will make fun of us for wearing lifts. They can never know what it's like for us.

I only wear lifts for dates, I bought shoes from elevatorshoes and increasingshoes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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