"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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my stereo is messing up

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i bought this jvc stereo a monthor two agoand its been all good. ive been playing alot of mp3 cds and theyve been playing fine. and normal audio cds have been playing fine too. i got some cds for christmas and they keep skipping. its more like they are jumping. its not consistant enough to where i can tell when its oging to do it so i dont know if they are jumping backwards or forwards or both. the crappy stereo i had before i got this one did this but it was bigger jumps. like it would just 2 minutes back on the cd. whats going on
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Do you have them on the spindle correctly? They may just be scratched too, or a defective burn.
 

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maybe i didnt specify enough. the mp3 ons play fine. the ones i got for chirstmas. brand new cds., like a sugarhill gang cd. they are the ones that are jumping. and i sont set it on a spindle. i set in on a tray and it slides in andthen it hooks inor whatever. like on a computer.
 

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Originally posted by Lt dan
maybe i didnt specify enough. the mp3 ons play fine. the ones i got for chirstmas. brand new cds., like a sugarhill gang cd. they are the ones that are jumping. and i sont set it on a spindle. i set in on a tray and it slides in andthen it hooks inor whatever. like on a computer.
Defective CD's most likely.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Lt dan
4 defective cds? thats amazing
Oh, theres four of them.

I'm guessing a bad lens on the CD player then. Return it, regardless if some MP3's work, cause there in a different format (CDs are .CDA)
 
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