"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, DJ, to each his own. Some guys have lots of money, and very few dates. Others have lots of dates, and very few dollars. The latter might burn a few hot dates w/guaranteed s-x to focus on a six figure salary. Same as a wealthy AFC dropping $2k to get women.

Anyway, not much to update. Went to a family July 4th picnic that included about 20 other people. To my surprise a few beautiful young girls there. All daughters of family friends, under 20, off limits, but still made the time pass faster. They loved attention from me. I wish it was a hundred years ago and I could just buy one of them from their dad. It's complete B.S. that families except their lovely young daughters to be deflowered by groping idiot boys their own ages with absolutely nothing to offer them. Society is f'd up.

Also ran into some married friends. I will see them at a wedding next week. I'm hoping some decent available women will be there. I'm doing this wedding instead of a weekend class b/c I think that the odds are a lot higher at weddings, *if* you find someone available/attractive.

Today put on some nice clothes and walked around an upscale mall. It was too crowded, didn't find any approachable women. On the train back, saw a girl in the station that was perfect for me. Cute blonde, well dressed, carrying a book, by herself. But she was on the upper platform. I was waiting for a train below, but decided to go up there anyway, b/c I'm sick of letting opportunities go bye, but by the time I got up there she was gone. Possibly I could've tried to catch her eye from where I was, but doubtful.

Then I sat out at an outdoor cafe, saw a decent opportunity, and decided to get a drink and sit down next to her. But the damn drink took about ten minutes to be made, and by then she was gone. I guess I should have just skipped the drink and sat down without it.

Now I think I'll go to the gym and the park before I call it a day. There's got to be *at least one* cute chick out there for me to meet today.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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