"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so I hung out with a girl I met from myspace the other day, she spent the night but slept in her jeans, I guess she don't want me to think she's a slut, anyway the next day she wrote me this
her
"lol, turns out my court date is NEXT friday, so i just wasted a few hours of my life, but it's okay. i'm about ot go to work so i'll schedule off or see if i can switch shifts with someone. they scheduled me to be off 3 days during the week so hopefully i can just pick up a different shift or something, i'll let you know later. last night was a pleasure, and my god i love your hairy, sexy body!!!"

me
"Ha. lol thanks, I love your personality, the pleasure was all mine!. Aw.. at least you weren't off a week in the other direction, lol."

she didn't read it yet, also I changed my stautus to say "Have you ever met someone who you feel an intense connection to and want to spend more time together? with me, it doesn't happen very often, if not only onc"
with my mood as;Rapturous

do you guys think that is going too far?, I do like her a lot but I don't want to go overboard
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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steveoo5 said:
last night was a pleasure, and my god i love your hairy, sexy body!!!"

Your response right away needs to be, "My god, I love your hairy sexy body too!", or something she's not expecting.

She spent the night with you with her jeans on? Did you kiss her, touch her and got to advance some bases?
 

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yeah we made out for hour or two, I was rubbing on her through her jeans outside, and ass, tits, etc, and I was in control, but she didn't want to yet, anyway she's not hairy, also she touched my penis and I shouldn't of let her unless we were inside and ready to do more
 

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steveoo5 said:
yeah we made out for hour or two, I was rubbing on her through her jeans outside, and ass, tits, etc, and I was in control, but she didn't want to yet, anyway she's not hairy, also she touched my penis and I shouldn't of let her unless we were inside and ready to do more
LoL. she's not hairy? That is exactly why you tease her about it.

Good job. make sure you always escalate, even if is just by a little bit each time she's there.
 
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