"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My soccer teammates very excited about Independence Day Getaway!!

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My soccer teammates have something really big planned next weekend.

I asked Tiffany where she was going that weekend. And she said,
We are just going away, and didn't tell me where even or who was going,

I asked here "Where are you guys going",

and she just mumbled something and remaind silent.

WTF?


but I am pretty sure Bradley is going, but they never invited me.

It is so awkward being on this team that never invites me anywhere or
wants to tell me where they are going as group even.

Do they hate me? WTF is going on?


They all have these plans to go somewhere on Independence Day weekend,
but they did not invite me.

I am left to spend Independence Day alone by myself.
I feel like the only person who celebrates Indepedence Day alone.

Do you all have plans for the Indepedence Day weekend?

Are you spending it with your HB?

Tell me, what normal people do on Independence Day. Do they go out with friends?

Even my cousins don't like talking to me. They ignore me.

I am thinking of joining a PUA lair, so I can have friends to hang out with on Independence Day.

Does anyone know of any lairs in Chicago?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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