"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My skin is pealing! What should I do?

vivavllv

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I just got back from the Dominican Republic, i didn't wear sunblock or anything like that. When i was leaving, i had bit of sunburn on my pec and sholders.

Now my skin is pealing. 3Questions.
1)Why is this happening?

2)Are there any dangers to this?

3) How should i treat this? (i just put on dry-skin lotion)


thanks ~vivavllv~
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Damian

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Well, when you're goin to the beach, you should wear some sunblock.

Why is this happening? It's an effect of sunburn. After a while the skin where you had the sunburn will start to peel. It's like if you seared the skin on a piece of chicken, it would come flaking off easily. It's part of the natural healing process.

Are there any dangers to this? Well, the raw skin underneath is prone to infection, so try to keep it clean. Another danger from sun overexposure would be skin cancer, but nothing you should be too paranoid about.

How should you treat this? Aloe usually works best. Keep the area clean and dry, so it won't get infected. Otherwise, apply some lotion or aloe and just treat it as if you had scrape or something. Don't try to peel off all the dried skin. That might leave scarring or discoloration. Just let it slowly fall off on its own.

-Damian
 

vivavllv

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Thanks man, but will i lose my tan? Thats what it starting to look like.

And if my sweet gets on the spots, will this cause any sort of infections (probably not, i hope) or any harmful results?

Thanks Damian, your the man.
 

Shiftkey

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LOL are you being serious? Maybe it's just because I'm from CA, but peeling after a sunburn isn't uncommon....When I peel from a sunburn I don't do a damn thing. Infact I think it's kinda fun to peel it off and see how big of a chunk I can get at once :p The only thing you have to worry about is skin cancer.
 
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