Conscious
Don Juan
I am a good looking guy, I do sports, I'm in all AP classes and I'm fairly popular. Until I discovered this site, however, I was still an AFC. Girls would be attracted to me, but I would try to be a nice guy. That is quite amusing because to my friends I am, as they say, the most ****y, sarcastic, cynnical, arrogant, rich person at my school.
Recently I just stopped caring about girls. I started treating them the same as my friends. So I became C+F to everyone. Once I did this, one of the hottest girls in our class (an HB9) starting pouring over me, laughing at everything I say, etc. People would be like "what the hell? you don't treat her special at all." Exactly.
In the weeks that followed, we started going out on dates. I hang at her house, we went to the movies, etc. Everyone at school thought that we were "going out." All this time I kept being C+F and used kino. And all the while she grew more attracted to me with each day.
I must say, I know I'm not in "love" or anything. But she is an amazing person. We are both very cynnical and make fun of relationships in general. She shares my same "it's all about hooking up with people and having fun, not thinking you're gonna marry every person you begin a relationship with" philosophy.
That said, she has a boyfriend of 2 years. We are both juniors in HS and he is a freshman in college. He goes to college 8 states away. But she visits him whenever we have a break from school.
I really don't know what to do at this point. Everyone at school says stay with it, she is obviously head over heels about you. She is prolly bored with this LTR and wants to move on.
What do you guys suggest? How should I handle it when she discusses her boyfriend? Do you think I should move on, even though she is the one who is into me?
Update: We like to discuss sexual stuff a lot
She always tells me how good she is at all different sorts of things. The thought had always crossed my mind to lay on one her. However, I do recall one instance when she told me a story that, last year, she was hanging with someone who laid one on her and she got pissed off.
Yet, she does tell me that, dispute her boyfriend not knowing, she made out with someone else while they were going out.
Are these hints?
One other thing... When she does discuss long term plans in regard to her boyfriend she says, "if we are still together."
Is she trying to tell me to make a move or wait for them to breakup?
Recently I just stopped caring about girls. I started treating them the same as my friends. So I became C+F to everyone. Once I did this, one of the hottest girls in our class (an HB9) starting pouring over me, laughing at everything I say, etc. People would be like "what the hell? you don't treat her special at all." Exactly.
In the weeks that followed, we started going out on dates. I hang at her house, we went to the movies, etc. Everyone at school thought that we were "going out." All this time I kept being C+F and used kino. And all the while she grew more attracted to me with each day.
I must say, I know I'm not in "love" or anything. But she is an amazing person. We are both very cynnical and make fun of relationships in general. She shares my same "it's all about hooking up with people and having fun, not thinking you're gonna marry every person you begin a relationship with" philosophy.
That said, she has a boyfriend of 2 years. We are both juniors in HS and he is a freshman in college. He goes to college 8 states away. But she visits him whenever we have a break from school.
I really don't know what to do at this point. Everyone at school says stay with it, she is obviously head over heels about you. She is prolly bored with this LTR and wants to move on.
What do you guys suggest? How should I handle it when she discusses her boyfriend? Do you think I should move on, even though she is the one who is into me?
Update: We like to discuss sexual stuff a lot
She always tells me how good she is at all different sorts of things. The thought had always crossed my mind to lay on one her. However, I do recall one instance when she told me a story that, last year, she was hanging with someone who laid one on her and she got pissed off. Yet, she does tell me that, dispute her boyfriend not knowing, she made out with someone else while they were going out.
Are these hints?
One other thing... When she does discuss long term plans in regard to her boyfriend she says, "if we are still together."
Is she trying to tell me to make a move or wait for them to breakup?
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